Hey y'all, it's Carla! My birthday's coming up, and let's just say I've been in my feelings. In this episode I shared how I've been mourning parts of my younger self and wishing I could go back and change a few things. Dex reminded me that aging isn't just loss — it's also growth and new beginnings, and honestly, I needed to hear that.

We also unpacked a wild episode of Dear Future Wifey where a pastor's wife said she used to iron her man's clothes so he could go see his side chick. Yes, you read that right. She said it was her calling from God to support him — and while I respect her story, I had to come through with scripture because God did not call us to suffer through infidelity or abuse. Dex and I got into how the church sometimes pushes a "ride or die" message for women, and it's not always holy — sometimes it's just harmful.

Then we talked about the price of love — literally. A woman spent $10K on a dating coach and is now engaged. Dex thinks finding your person is priceless, but what do yall think?

We close with a heavy listener letter from someone stuck in a relationship that's emotionally draining and rooted in fear, not love. The message? Guilt isn't a reason to stay, and sometimes choosing yourself is the most loving thing you can do.

Real talk, spiritual checks, and birthday fears — this episode has it all.

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