Stop. Putting. Him. Up. There.

On today’s episode of the Unf*ck Your Relationships podcast, we’re talking about pedestals and why you shouldn’t put men up there (but girl, we can understand the urge to do so).

No one is perfect, and if all you focus on is the good and build it up to mean more than it does, you’ll never make a genuine connection.

On this episode, I’ll explain in detail:

• Why we pedestal men
• What happens when we do

HINT: Nothing good

You can’t genuinely know or love a person if you can’t be yourself around them. 

Please stop shrinking your soul so his can shine.

And remember, he’s a human with human flaws. He farts. He pees. He gets the stomach flu. He probably wore puka shells in the early years when he believed that they were “the in thing.” 

All the good qualities you love in him, are in you.

Find someone who wants to enhance them, not overshadow them. And most importantly, make sure you remain true to what you need & desire most in your relationships, while continuing to embody your purest form of what makes you, you!

 

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