Are you a Fear-Based Flaw Finder, frozen in pickiness? Image Expert & Therapist Kim Seltzer reveals the power of experience, practice, presence and connecting energetically to create real chemistry.  Sex -how long to keep your pants on, when to reveal your “stuff,” and how to date without attachment. Are your results begging you to adjust your expectations? How to turn disappointment into an a-ha moment. Guys, keep the beard, ditch it, trim it? Is your “look” attracting the right women? Ladies, the power of The Dress, The Shoes, and maybe just one tube of lipstick in developing your approachability quotient.