So What Now? with Carla and Dex

EP 35: Voicenote Devotionals, Selfie Request and The Last Straw


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Whew! Y'all… I'm out here trying to date and let me just say: it's terrible. This week I went on two dates — yes, two. One man is ready for a monogamous relationship immediately… and has absolutely no friends (red flag?). The other sends me unsolicited prayer voice notes every single morning and follows up with "send me a pic" all day long. I'm exhausted, and it's only Monday. 🙃

Meanwhile, Dex is convinced the internet is for girls only — specifically saying men should not be in The Shade Room comments. Honestly? I don't disagree. Go build a house or something, sir.

We also got into the wildest things we've done for love. Let's just say, Dex shared a story that had my jaw on the floor. You ever stay with someone who cheated… and had two kids on you while y'all were still together? She did. And sis really said "crazy for love."

Then, we got into a listener letter: "Do you have to pick a side when two close friends fall out?" Mmm… we had thoughts. Lots of thoughts.

In our motherhood segment, we reviewed that new Tyler Perry movie Straw (spoiler alert if you haven't watched yet!). Of course, we couldn't agree on anything. I loved it — it spoke to me on such a deep, spiritual level. Dex? She's over it. Said it's just more Black trauma on display. Classic us.

So what now? Click play and find out.

We wanna see y'all IRL. We're planning some in-person events, just for the ladies. Click the link and let's get out the group chat.

Outside the Group Chat: Women's Meetups

— Carla 💛

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