#374: What if the reason your relationships feel so intense, fragile, or all-consuming isn’t because you care too much… but because your sense of safety is tied to them? And what if self-resourcing could actually deepen connections instead of taking them away?

In this episode, I build on our conversation about self-resourcing and answer the big question so many people have: Does learning to have your own back mean you’ll need people less?

Join me this week as I walk you through how emotional outsourcing shows up in relationships, why it creates anxiety and disconnection, and how self-resourcing shifts the entire dynamic. You’ll learn how self-resourcing creates the internal stability needed for true interdependence, not isolation. I also explore the difference between needing and depending, how urgency gets mistaken for love, and what it actually looks like to stay present, grounded, and connected without abandoning yourself.

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