Sara and Heather explore the issue of people pleasing and its impact on sobriety and personal well-being. They discuss the root causes, such as fear of rejection and the need for social acceptance, and how these behaviors affect an alcohol-free lifestyle. The episode offers insights and personal experiences on recognizing people pleasing tendencies, setting firm boundaries, and practicing self-compassion. Key points include the significance of supportive communities, strategies to handle social pressure, and the importance of maintaining authenticity. 

00:00 Introduction

01:52 Defining People Pleasing

03:16 Personal Experiences with People Pleasing

04:51 People Pleasing in Relationships

10:56 The Impact on Sobriety

17:52 Setting Boundaries and Self-Compassion

21:32 Dust Yourself Off and Reevaluate

21:55 The Importance of Open Communication

22:25 Navigating Social Situations Alcohol-Free

24:03 Aligning Actions with Values

25:29 The Power of Community Support

27:50 Handling Peer Pressure

32:06 Dealing with Social Event Guilt

35:24 Reflections on People Pleasing

36:32 Unpopular Opinion: People Pleasing is Selfish

38:50 Final Thoughts and Call to Action

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