April 01, 2025

Ep. 97: Am I Boring Now That I Don’t Drink?

26 minutes

In this laughter-filled episode of No More Wasted Days, Sara and Heather take on a question that so many people secretly (or not-so-secretly) wonder when they stop drinking:

👉 “Am I boring now?”

Whether you’ve been asked this directly, felt self-conscious in social settings, or worried that your social life might fade after quitting alcohol—this episode is for you. Sara and Heather bust the “boring” myth wide open with personal stories, hard truths, a little sass, and a whole lot of encouragement.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

💬 Why society equates drinking with fun—and how that messaging impacts your fears

💬 What really happens to friendships when you quit drinking

💬 Why alcohol isn’t what made you fun (spoiler alert: YOU were the fun one all along)

💬 How to rebuild your idea of fun and connection in an alcohol-free life

💬 What to say when someone asks, “Why aren’t you drinking?”

Key Takeaways:

✅ You are not boring. You’re discovering what real fun feels like.

✅ Friendship circles may shrink—but they become deeper and more meaningful.

✅ Real fun = laughing hard, making memories, and waking up with energy—not regret.

✅ You can do all the things you used to do (travel, dance, karaoke)—just without the hangover.

✅ Your energy sets the tone. If you act confident and lighthearted about not drinking, others will too.

Memorable Quotes:

“Drinking doesn’t make you fun. You were the fun one the whole time.”

“Doing the same shots in the same bars with the same people every weekend? That’s the real boring.”

“I don’t drink anymore—and I don’t miss trying to remember what I did last night.”

“Sober fun is deep, memorable, and doesn’t leave you feeling like trash the next day.”

“You’re not giving up fun. You’re giving up things that weren’t working.”

Fun Moments You Won’t Want to Miss:

🎤 Sara’s plan to sing Chappell Roan at karaoke

😂 Heather’s epic T-Pain story + false eyelashes on her forehead

🥂 Sara’s “gin-less gin & tonic” mocktail recipe

🕹️ Their favorite sober party games (Cards Against Humanity & Fishbowl FTW!)

Challenge of the Week:

👉 What’s something fun you’ve always wanted to try—but never did because alcohol got in the way? Let us know in the comments on YouTube or Spotify!

Call to Action:

💛 Loved this episode? Hit follow, leave a review, and share it with a friend who's just starting their alcohol-free journey. We read and cherish every review!

Resources Mentioned:

Daymakers Community: Weekly coaching calls, private messaging threads, and a supportive community. Learn more here.

Heather’s 1-on-1 Coaching: Tailored support to help you navigate your alcohol-free life.

If this episode resonated with you, share it with a fellow caregiver and leave a comment on Spotify or YouTube. Let’s break free from the guilt trap together! 💛

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Looking for support on your alcohol free journey? Consider joining us in the Day Makers Community. CLICK HERE for all the details.

Want some 1-on-1 support on your alcohol free journey? Work with Heather as your alcohol free coach. CLICK HERE to start working with Heather today.

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Follow the podcast on Social Media:

IG: @nomorewasteddays.pod

Follow Sara on Social Media:

IG: @no_more_wasted_days

TikTok: @no_more_wasted_days

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/NoMoreWastedDaysOfficial

Follow Heather on Social Media:

IG: @theheatherleecollective

TikTok: @thealcoholfreecoach

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April 01, 2025

Ep. 97: Am I Boring Now That I Don’t Drink?

26 minutes

In this laughter-filled episode of No More Wasted Days, Sara and Heather take on a question that so many people secretly (or not-so-secretly) wonder when they stop drinking:

👉 “Am I boring now?”

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

💬 Why society equates drinking with fun—and how that messaging impacts your fears

💬 What really happens to friendships when you quit drinking

💬 Why alcohol isn’t what made you fun (spoiler alert: YOU were the fun one all along)

💬 How to rebuild your idea of fun and connection in an alcohol-free life

💬 What to say when someone asks, “Why aren’t you drinking?”

Key Takeaways:

✅ You are not boring. You’re discovering what real fun feels like.

✅ Friendship circles may shrink—but they become deeper and more meaningful.

✅ Real fun = laughing hard, making memories, and waking up with energy—not regret.

✅ You can do all the things you used to do (travel, dance, karaoke)—just without the hangover.

✅ Your energy sets the tone. If you act confident and lighthearted about not drinking, others will too.

Memorable Quotes:

“Drinking doesn’t make you fun. You were the fun one the whole time.”

“Doing the same shots in the same bars with the same people every weekend? That’s the real boring.”

“I don’t drink anymore—and I don’t miss trying to remember what I did last night.”

“Sober fun is deep, memorable, and doesn’t leave you feeling like trash the next day.”

“You’re not giving up fun. You’re giving up things that weren’t working.”

Fun Moments You Won’t Want to Miss:

🎤 Sara’s plan to sing Chappell Roan at karaoke

😂 Heather’s epic T-Pain story + false eyelashes on her forehead

🥂 Sara’s “gin-less gin & tonic” mocktail recipe

🕹️ Their favorite sober party games (Cards Against Humanity & Fishbowl FTW!)

Challenge of the Week:

👉 What’s something fun you’ve always wanted to try—but never did because alcohol got in the way? Let us know in the comments on YouTube or Spotify!

Call to Action:

💛 Loved this episode? Hit follow, leave a review, and share it with a friend who's just starting their alcohol-free journey. We read and cherish every review!

Resources Mentioned:

Daymakers Community: Weekly coaching calls, private messaging threads, and a supportive community. Learn more here.

Heather’s 1-on-1 Coaching: Tailored support to help you navigate your alcohol-free life.

If this episode resonated with you, share it with a fellow caregiver and leave a comment on Spotify or YouTube. Let’s break free from the guilt trap together! 💛

************************************************

Looking for support on your alcohol free journey? Consider joining us in the Day Makers Community. CLICK HERE for all the details.

Want some 1-on-1 support on your alcohol free journey? Work with Heather as your alcohol free coach. CLICK HERE to start working with Heather today.

************************************************

Follow the podcast on Social Media:

IG: @nomorewasteddays.pod

Follow Sara on Social Media:

IG: @no_more_wasted_days

TikTok: @no_more_wasted_days

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/NoMoreWastedDaysOfficial

Follow Heather on Social Media:

IG: @theheatherleecollective