In this episode, we are joined by Abbe Barclay, a seasoned Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Certified Sex Addiction Therapist. With over 30 years of experience, Abbe offers invaluable insights into the complex world of sexual addiction. We discuss the nuances of sex addiction, its impact on relationships, and effective paths to recovery. Whether you're personally affected or simply curious about the subject, this episode sheds light on a topic often shrouded in misunderstanding and stigma.

Episode Highlights:

[1:32] - Colette shares her personal connection to the topic.

[3:47] - Abbe explains how she started working with sex addiction.

[4:21] - Debunking common misconceptions about sex addiction.

[5:52] - The psychological underpinnings of sex addiction.

[7:42] - The cycle of addiction: preoccupation, ritual, acting out, and despair.

[10:07] - Key signs and symptoms to look for in a sex addict.

[12:57] - The importance of addressing underlying emotional and psychological issues.

[18:36] - Differences in how sex addiction presents in men and women.

[22:19] - The role of denial and the importance of trained therapists.

[23:24] - The healing process: what it takes to recover.

[25:13] - Resources and books recommended by Abbe for further education.

[32:49] - Final thoughts on seeking appropriate help and setting boundaries.

Resources:

• Abbe Barclay's private practice: Clarity Counseling Center
• Recommended Reading: 
  • Sex Addiction 101 by Robert Weiss
  • Mending a Shattered Heart by Stefanie Carnes
  • Courageous Love: A Guide for Couples Conquering Betrayal by Stefanie Carnes
• Screening tests: Sexhelp.com
• Find a certified therapist: IITAP
• Seeking Integrity: https://seekingintegrity.com/ 

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