Hey everyone—We’re diving into a topic that gets tossed around a lot but rarely unpacked in a way that actually matters: self-care. If you’ve ever felt confused or overwhelmed by what self-care really is (and isn’t), this is for you. In this episode, we unpack the myths, call out the cultural noise, and get real about what it truly means to care for yourself, especially during midlife.

We talk about the difference between real self-care and the performative kind, and how embodying your values, setting boundaries, and nurturing self-compassion can actually refill your tank. We’re sharing personal practices, therapeutic insights, and a whole lot of laughter as we redefine what it means to be replenished. It’s not spa days and wine nights (though, we won’t judge if you enjoy those too!). Get ready to reframe self-care in a way that truly supports the life you’re trying to build.

 

Episode Highlights:

[0:02] - Welcome back + intro to real self-care vs. cultural hype.
 [1:13] - Why “self-care” can feel like a loaded or empty word.
 [2:06] - Breaking down faux self-care and the influence of marketing.
 [4:28] - The truth about performing femininity and hustle culture.
 [7:45] - Defining escapism vs. true replenishment.
 [10:40] - Tuning into your inner needs and building self-awareness.
 [12:44] - Real self-care is simple: boundaries, balance, connection.
 [14:59] - The power of self-compassion and Kristen Neff’s work.
 [18:41] - Our own self-care routines and mindsets.
 [24:17] - The role of creativity and play in replenishment.
 [29:22] - Why unstructured time is essential.
 [30:27] - Struggles with attention and learning to do one thing at a time.
 [31:06] - Rediscovering the joy and nourishment of reading.
 [32:24] - Final reflections + practical takeaways.

 

Resources:

Midlife Master Class Waitlist: insightsfromthecouch.org

Kristen Neff’s Self-Compassion Work: self-compassion.org

 

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