Ask the Unfaithful

Episode 11: Why is Perfectionism so Dangerous for the Unfaithful?


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In this episode, Sam and I talk about Perfectionism as it applies in every day life as one of the top reasons for relapse. Where does it come from and why is it so common and dangerous in the life of a recovering Unfaithful? What can the Unfaithful do to change the negative power of this unattainable value that leaves us feeling like we aren't good enough at anything and drives us into anxiety, shame and pain where we are in danger of heading down the road to relapse and acting out?

How do we strive toward our recovery and becoming a person of true integrity while at the same time addressing one of the most destructive and dangerous traits we can have: Perfectionism. We also discuss another issue that is related to perfectionism and can leave our recovery mired in stagnation: Procrastination. In this video, we share unexpected solutions to both. Please join us as we discuss this very important topic!

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