Ask the Unfaithful

Episode 12: How Can the Unfaithful Stop Draining the Betrayed's Energy?


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Despite being well into a couple's recovery journey, the Unfaithful can drain the Betrayed's energy in a myriad of ways - from asking the betrayed to affirm, encourage, buoy, support and, in many ways, be responsible for the unfaithful's recovery. This approach ends up draining the Betrayed of most if not all of their energy, resilience and overall life force. It's likely this 'draining' has been going on since well before discovery, and possibly even before the Unfaithful's acting out even began.

Today we'll discuss not only why this happens but also it's implications for recovery and for your relationship. Most importantly, we'll show you how to stop it, create new possibilities in the recovery journey for all parties and provide hope to create a new pathway to energy and rejuvenation. Join us today as we endeavor to get to one of the fundamental and least understood problems in recovery from betrayal: how the unfaithful drain the betrayed's energy.

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