“When you stop mothering and start embodying, you become unforgettable.”

We went there with Leola. Straight into the shadows. Into pussy as the temple, the mystery school. Into the raw alchemy of rage, grief, lust, and power. Into the line between being a man’s coach or his priestess, and why only one will unlock real intimacy.

This isn’t theory. This is the truth about tantra, about the shame wired into our bodies, about the centuries-long war on the dark feminine. Leola doesn’t soften it, because she knows: the dark feminine is the portal. To sovereignty. To radiance. To sex that doesn’t just scratch an itch, but changes who you are.

If you’ve ever felt split between the “good girl” mask and the wild one clawing underneath, this episode is your permission slip to burn the script and take back your fire.

Here’s What We Dive Into:

• Nervous system regulation as the gateway to power & pleasure
• What it really means to “descend into your pussy”
• Light feminine, dark feminine, and their shadows explained
• The 3 gifts of the dark feminine: sensuality, emotional alchemy & oracular power
• How culture demonized women’s magic (and how we reclaim it)
• Real talk on tantra beyond the sexual stereotypes
• Why most sex in media & porn distorts reality for women
• Loving men well: priestess vs coach energy in relationship
• Parenting, sex ed & raising kids in a sex-positive home

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