Ask the Unfaithful

Episode 13: 6 Ways the Unfaithful Retraumatize the Betrayed Partner


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In this week's episode James and Sam discuss 6 ways the unfaithful party continues to retraumatize the betrayed partner both knowingly and unknowingly. We'll also discuss how the unfaithful can become more aware of these mistakes as well as stop them and rework your recovery altogether. Contrary to what some days may feel like, It doesn't always have to be a one step forward, three steps back kind of recovery.

It's vital that the unfaithful work to totally remove approaches and behaviors that keep themselves stuck and increase the suffering and wounding of the betrayed. While identifying the mistakes we'll also help underscore how certain variables can in fact make the betrayed feel cared for, while providing hope for recreating safety in what feels like a perpetually unsafe situation. We're confident that with expert help and direction, unfaithfuls can learn to discern what is a strength in recovery and alternatively what erodes that very same strength. 

Today you'll learn about the dangers of being unaware of your actions even though you think they are for the best. James and Sam give you an elevated and scalpel-like view on how to increase your understanding of what is happening as well as a ground level, practical understanding that can keep your individual and relational recovery both in tact and moving forward.

 

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