Ask the Unfaithful

Episode 20: 10 Reasons Why the Unfaithful Self Sabotage


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Have you ever wondered, as an unfaithful, "Why do I keep doing this?" "Why do I keep getting in my own way?" "Why is it that no matter what I do, I eventually just make decisions that sabotage my life?" If you've ever struggled with these thoughts and more just like it, you're in luck as today we dive deep into why we unfaithful self-sabotage. Maybe you're a betrayed and you've been left wondering to yourself "Why does my unfaithful keep doing this?" "Why can't they see what they are in danger of losing and why can't they see how good they have it here, with me.....with us"

While not an easy topic, it's a riveting topic to discuss and understand both as hosts and as former unfaithful spouses who are on the other side of self-sabotage. But what does it actually look like to self-sabotage? What are the symptoms and what are the signs? And.....can the unfaithful actually stop self-sabotaging and find a sense of safety and consistency in life and repair work?

If they can in fact stop, how can they actually find new life, new hope and new momentum in both their own life and their relationship? Today we'll provide answers to these questions and more.

 

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