Trauma and Children

In this week's episode we talk about helping our children navigate and heal from Trauma.

[2.11] We all have degrees of trauma or hurt feelings being human.

[3:25] Birth and Trauma and what we perceive.

[5.56] The spectrum of feelings and our ability to heal.

[8.00] Babies in Utero absorbing feelings and how they can heal.

[13.00] Co-regulation and healing with children.

[15.30] Being with our own feelings to hold others.

[20.00] Our reactions when our own trauma or feelings arise

[23.00] Monitoring our babies feelings

[26.00] Bodywork and extra support for babies and children

[28.30] Resources to work with trauma in the body

[32.00] Traumas will often show up when a similar situation arises

[37.50] Creating a space for our children to move trauma

[41.00] Letting the body shake and do what it needs

[43.00] Dental Trauma

[47.00] Bringing attention to an incident in the moment

[48.00] Trusting timing with trauma and safety

[51.40] Feeling resourced to listen and healing is always possible

[53.06] Our mechanisms to cope when we can’t release Trauma

This week’s invitation:

1. Bring some compassion to yourself, hand on your head or heart and take a breathe and check in.

2. What happened for you when there was a trauma, what did you need that you didn’t get and has that repeated in your life.

Resources:

Aletha Solter - The Aware Baby

Aletha Solter - Tears and Tantrums

Marions courses - http://www.marionrose.net/which-course-is-for-you/

In Utero Film https://www.inuterofilm.com/

The body keeps the score - Bessel Van der Kolk https://www.audible.com.au/pd/The-Body-Keeps-the-Score-Audiobook/0141992646?

Polyvagal theory - https://www.stephenporges.com/

Peter Levine - https://traumahealing.org/about-us/

 

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You can find Marion at marionrose.net and Lael at laelstone.com.au

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Sending you much love, compassion and grace in your parenting journey.

x

Lael and Marion