Think narcissism only affects insecure or naive people? Think again. In this episode of Habits and Hustle, I talk with Dr. Ramani Durvasula who explains how narcissists manipulate even the most self-aware, high-achieving individuals.

We dive into why narcissistic relationships are so hard to leave, how gaslighting corrodes your self-trust, and the emotional price we pay for constantly managing toxic people. Whether it’s a partner, boss, parent, or friend, this episode is your guide to recognizing and protecting yourself from covert manipulation.

Dr. Ramani is a licensed clinical psychologist, bestselling author, and the internet’s go-to expert on narcissistic abuse. Her work has helped millions decode toxic dynamics through her YouTube channel, books like “Don’t You Know Who I Am?”, and expert commentary on major media outlets.

What We Discuss: 

(03:22) Why narcissistic abuse happens to smart, strong people

(08:40) The subtle signs of emotional manipulation

(13:05) Why narcissists never play by the same rules

(21:55) The unique pain of having a narcissistic parent

(32:48) How to set boundaries when leaving isn’t an option

(39:12) The myth of the “narcissist who will change”

(49:20) Dr. Ramani’s tools for reclaiming your identity

(56:44) Can narcissists ever truly love or feel regret?

(01:01:15) Are you the narcissist? How to do a reality check

(01:06:30) The healing path: therapy, no-contact, and radical clarity

…and more!

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Find more from Dr Ramani Durvasula:

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Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@DoctorRamani