The Relationship Rehab

[Eps.41] The Anxious-Avoidant Trap: Why Anxious & Avoidant Partners Are Attracted to Each Other


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For a deeper dive into the attachment styles, check out the archetype series at the beginning of this podcast! Ever wondered why you feel SO pulled to avoidant people and why avoidants choose anxiously attached partners when they need so much space? This episode is for you!

In this episode, we talk about,

✨ Why anxious and avoidant people are attracted to each other

✨ The cycle of push-pull and why it’s hard to get out

✨ The subconscious beliefs of both attachment styles

✨ Whether this dynamic can actually work

✨ How to break free of getting into this cycle again!

✨ …and so much more!

➡️ DM me and let me know your biggest takeaway from this episode!

Love, Samantha xx

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