Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!

Escaping the Hobosexual Trap


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In this episode, we delve into Melanie's story of resilience and determination as she recounts her journey of breaking free from the clutches of a toxic relationship. Melanie, with her idyllic childhood and a heart brimming with kindness, thought she had found a life partner in James when they connected through a dating app. However, what began as a promising romance soon turned into a nightmare.


Discussions in this episode:
  • Meet Melanie
  • Meeting James, the hobosexual
  • James moves in
  • COVID-19 Lockdown hell
  • Escaping the manipulation
  • Finally no contact


Within a year of dating, James moved into Melanie's home, bringing along his children from a previous relationship. Despite Melanie's unwavering love and hospitality, James took advantage of her kindness, never contributing financially or helping with household responsibilities. As the world grappled with the challenges of the Covid-19 pandemic, their relationship took a sharp turn for the worse.


James's alcoholism and narcissistic tendencies exacerbated the toxicity of their relationship, leaving Melanie emotionally drained and exhausted. Join us as Melanie shares her courageous journey of reclaiming her life and finding the strength to break free from the Hobosexual trap that ensnared her. This episode offers a poignant reminder of the importance of recognizing and addressing toxic relationships, even in the face of adversity.


What is a hobosexual you ask? A Hobosexual is a person who gets into relationships to avoid being homeless or being financially responsible for a home or utilities.


Content Warning: This episode discusses various forms of toxic abuse, narcissistic abuse, and any topics that may disturb some listeners. Listener discretion is advised.


We are not doctors or therapists; you should not take our opinions as medical advice.


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