In this heartfelt episode of Fatherhood Field Notes, Ned sits down with Jaz Yglesias—a passionate music teacher, jiu-jitsu coach, and lifelong contributor to his family and community. Jaz opens up about raising a blended family, grieving the loss of his daughter, and how martial arts isn’t just self-defense—it’s soul development. From his belief in honoring seven generations to his insistence on work ethic, contribution, and love over comfort, Jaz brings the fire and wisdom today’s dads need. This conversation is a call to action for fathers: be passionate, stay youthful, lead by example, and prepare your kids not just for today—but for a legacy worth inheriting.

Guest Links:

• Instagram
• Shoot Hawai’i Dojo

Links and Resources:

• Transform Your Body with Ned & RUK Fitness: 
• RUK Fitness
• This episode is sponsored by The Adventure of Fatherhood
• Order The Adventure of Fatherhood children's book here
• Check out the TEDx

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• https://www.adventureoffatherhood.com/
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Ned gets raw and real about something every father needs to hear—the fleeting number of summers we get with our kids. With one child in college and others growing up fast, Ned shares the emotional shift that happens as your family dynamic changes.

He reminds us that while the to-do list will never be done, the moments we have left with our children are limited—and precious. This episode is a wake-up call to slow down, be present, and fully embrace the fatherhood role now. Whether your kids are toddlers or teenagers, this message will hit home.

Links and Resources:

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This episode is sponsored by The Adventure of Fatherhood

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Check out the TEDx

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https://www.adventureoffatherhood.com/

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In this deeply candid conversation, FloWater CEO and visionary entrepreneur Raz Razgaitis sits down with Ned Schaut to explore how fatherhood—not business—became his greatest teacher. From scaling tech companies to navigating divorce, Raz shares how his definition of success radically shifted when he chose presence over performance and connection over control. With heartfelt honesty, he unpacks the painful lessons and powerful breakthroughs that emerged through co-parenting, bedtime routines, and letting go of ego. Listeners will walk away with a renewed vision of fatherhood as leadership, and insight into how prioritizing love, integrity, and emotional presence can transform not just your home—but your legacy.

Guest Links:

• Website (FloWater)
• LinkedIn
• Read: Clean Water is Awesome. No, Really!

Links and Resources:

• Transform Your Body with Ned & RUK Fitness: 
• RUK Fitness
• This episode is sponsored by The Adventure of Fatherhood
• Order The Adventure of Fatherhood children's book here
• Check out the TEDx

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• https://www.adventureoffatherhood.com/
• https://www.rebelandcreate.com/

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Ned peels back the curtain on the messy, sacred, and often hilarious real-life moments that define fatherhood. From rescuing his daughter in a parking lot to navigating tough conversations with his son about dirt bikes and responsibility, Ned invites us into the daily decisions that shape our kids—and ourselves. He reflects on presence, parenting with integrity, and the subtle power of being interruptible. This episode reminds every dad that the little, chaotic moments matter—and that showing up, again and again, is heroic.

Links and Resources:

• Transform Your Body with Ned & RUK Fitness: 
• RUK Fitness
• This episode is sponsored by The Adventure of Fatherhood
• Order The Adventure of Fatherhood children's book here
• Check out the TEDx

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Want to learn more about The Adventure of Fatherhood?

• https://www.adventureoffatherhood.com/
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In this raw and revealing episode, Army and law enforcement veteran Bill Marr opens up about his journey from homeless at 17 to becoming a devoted father of three and founder of Breeze Benefits Group. With Ned, Bill dives deep into the realities of overcoming anxiety, breaking generational cycles, and the relentless work it takes to be present—not perfect—for your children. He shares hard-earned insights like, “Nobody’s coming to save you,” and challenges fathers to “do the work” to show up with integrity, resilience, and love. This episode is a powerful wake-up call for dads to lead with courage, consistency, and vulnerability—because fatherhood is the most important battle you’ll ever fight.

Guest Links:

• Breeze Benefits Website
• Bill on LinkedIn

Links and Resources:

• Transform Your Body with Ned & RUK Fitness: 
• RUK Fitness
• This episode is sponsored by The Adventure of Fatherhood
• Order The Adventure of Fatherhood children's book here
• Check out the TEDx

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• https://www.adventureoffatherhood.com/
• https://www.rebelandcreate.com/

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Ned challenges fathers to recognize sex as sacred and to communicate its true meaning and value at home, not just let culture define it for their kids. He shares real ways he and his wife approach open, shame-free conversations about sex, urging dads to align their beliefs, lead with grace, and clean up their own struggles so they can model healthy intimacy for the next generation.

Links and Resources:

• Transform Your Body with Ned & RUK Fitness: 
• RUK Fitness
• This episode is sponsored by The Adventure of Fatherhood
• Order The Adventure of Fatherhood children's book here
• Check out the TEDx

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• https://www.adventureoffatherhood.com/
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Griff Erickson — former pro baseball player turned father of three — shares how he’s learning to “keep it simple” and “stay approachable” while raising kids who know what real love, hard work, and character look like. From life’s unexpected curveballs to messy garages and fatherhood’s hidden gift of leaning into the hard, Griff opens up about what it means to “love the suck,” show up for your kids, and build a solid foundation at home when life never stays tidy for long. If you’ve ever wondered how to stop yelling, stay present, and create a family culture your kids run toward — this episode will inspire you to rebel against low expectations and embrace the beautiful mess of fatherhood.

Guest Links:

• Griff on LinkedIn

Links and Resources:

• Transform Your Body with Ned & RUK Fitness: 
• RUK Fitness
• This episode is sponsored by The Adventure of Fatherhood
• Order The Adventure of Fatherhood children's book here
• Check out the TEDx

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Ned dives deep into the importance of treating words and thoughts as sacred tools in fatherhood. He highlights the profound influence a father can have in shaping his family’s environment simply by mastering self-control and being intentional with the words he speaks. Through personal reflection, Ned explores the idea that fatherhood is about influence, not control, and how managing thoughts and actions can create a peaceful, loving home. This episode is packed with valuable insights for any father looking to lead his family with purpose and integrity. Tune in to learn why your words and thoughts carry the weight to build or disrupt your family’s future.

Links and Resources:

• Transform Your Body with Ned & RUK Fitness: 
• RUK Fitness
• This episode is sponsored by The Adventure of Fatherhood
• Order The Adventure of Fatherhood children's book here
• Check out the TEDx

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Want to learn more about The Adventure of Fatherhood?

• https://www.adventureoffatherhood.com/
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Ned Schaut and Amber Vilhauer unpack what it means to raise kids who trust their authentic voice. Amber shares how deep conversations, co-parenting with respect, and being fully present can help fathers break generational cycles and guide their kids with awareness and integrity. From her journey as a single mom to reconnecting with her own dad, Amber’s story reminds every father: It’s never too late to show up and lead by example.

Guest Links:

• ambervilhauer.com
• ngngenterprises.com
• LinkedIn

Links and Resources:

• Transform Your Body with Ned & RUK Fitness: 
• RUK Fitness
• This episode is sponsored by The Adventure of Fatherhood
• Order The Adventure of Fatherhood children's book here
• Check out the TEDx

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• https://www.adventureoffatherhood.com/
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Ned continues the "What is Sacred?" series by turning the focus inward—to the very space we call home. With heartfelt storytelling and real-life reflections, Ned challenges fathers to consider: Is your house just a building, or is it a sacred space where peace is cultivated? Through vivid anecdotes—like helping his son buy a first car instead of insisting on a clean garage—Ned explores how the tone we set, the stress we carry, and the way we treat each other inside our homes shapes legacy. This episode dives into practical wisdom on sibling relationships, modeling respect, and creating an atmosphere that feels like rest. If someone looked into your home today, would they know what really matters to you?

Links and Resources:

• Transform Your Body with Ned & RUK Fitness: 
• RUK Fitness
• This episode is sponsored by The Adventure of Fatherhood
• Order The Adventure of Fatherhood children's book here
• Check out the TEDx

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Want to learn more about The Adventure of Fatherhood?

• https://www.adventureoffatherhood.com/
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