In this episode of Fatherhood Field Notes: The Craft of Fatherhood, host Ned Schaut gets real about the tension between being a “fun dad” and a responsible parent. Reflecting on moments with his teens and college-aged kids, Ned shares how easy it is to say yes to dirt bikes, hangouts, and late-night drives—but how crucial it is to also enforce accountability, chores, and responsibility. Through candid stories about family dinners, devotions, and even shutting down screen time, he explores how fatherhood shifts with each season—from raising young kids to guiding adult children—and why dads must lead their homes with love, calm firmness, and consistency. At the heart of the conversation is learning when to hold the line and when to step back—when to enforce discipline and when to show mercy. Ned opens up about moments where he intentionally stayed quiet, choosing relationship over reaction, and how that practice can change the way kids respond. With practical tips, raw honesty, and affirmations like “I am the CEO of this house” and “I will not surrender my responsibility to lead this home,” this short but powerful episode challenges fathers to ask: Do I need to say yes more, no more—or show mercy more often?

Chapters:

• 00:00:00 – Welcome to Fatherhood Field Notes
• 00:01:32 – “Good Dad, Shitty Parent”
• 00:03:52 – Balancing fun dad vs. structured parent
• 00:06:27 – Tip 1: Present a united front; don’t say “because mom wants it”
• 00:07:14 – Tip 2: Know when to stay silent
• 00:08:00 – Tip 3: Enforce consequences (screen time off for missed devotions)
• 00:08:51 – Tip 4: Balance saying yes and no
• 00:09:54 – Parenting beyond 18—shift into advisor role
• 00:12:15 – Affirmation 1: “I am the CEO of this house”
• 00:13:49 – Affirmation 2: “I will not surrender my responsibility to lead”

Links and Resources:

• Transform Your Body with Ned & RUK Fitness: 
• RUK Fitness
• This episode is sponsored by The Adventure of Fatherhood
• Order The Adventure of Fatherhood children's book here
• Check out the TEDx

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In this heartfelt episode of Fatherhood Field Notes, host Ned Schaut sits down with Daniel Lehmann — pastor, father of four, and leader at Living Stones Church — to unpack what it really means to raise kids with stability, authenticity, and truth. From defining the role of the father as one who “trains kids in the way of the Lord” to navigating teenage years with firmness and love, Daniel shares candid stories from 25 years of marriage and parenting. Together, Ned and Daniel discuss when to extend mercy, when to stand firm, and why your home should never be a place of performance. Daniel also opens up about a traumatic brain injury and how embracing weakness has reshaped his view of fatherhood, faith, and family. This episode will leave you encouraged, challenged, and equipped with real tools for leading your home with love, integrity, and courage.

Chapters:

• 00:00:00 - Welcome to the Fatherhood Field Notes Podcast
• 00:01:34 - Meet Daniel Lehmann
• 00:02:40 - Daniel's Family Snapshot
• 00:03:33 - Parenting Grown Children
• 00:05:46 - Defining the Father's Role
• 00:06:50 - How to Pass on Faith
• 00:10:01 - Authenticity Over Performance
• 00:11:45 - Three Pillars of Training Kids in the Lord
• 00:18:20 - The Cell Phone Struggle
• 00:20:30 - Learning from His Own Father
• 00:22:25 - Connecting with Each Child Uniquely
• 00:24:48 - Pivoting from Career to Family
• 00:28:10 - Grace, Mercy, and Fatherhood
• 00:29:45 - A Story of Misplaced Mercy
• 00:34:00 - The Principle of Mercy vs. Enabling
• 00:38:35 - A Life-Changing Health Scare
• 00:40:55 - Embracing the Power of Weakness
• 00:43:50 - Motivation Through Adversity
• 00:46:40 - The Secret to 25 Years of Marriage
• 00:48:40 - A Blessing for Fathers

Guest Link:

• Daniel Lehmann on Instagram

Links and Resources:

• Transform Your Body with Ned & RUK Fitness: 
• RUK Fitness
• This episode is sponsored by The Adventure of Fatherhood
• Order The Adventure of Fatherhood children's book here
• Check out the TEDx

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Want to learn more about The Adventure of Fatherhood?

• https://www.adventureoffatherhood.com/
• https://www.rebelandcreate.com/

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In this powerful and heartfelt conversation, entrepreneur and father Mike McCarthy returns to Fatherhood Field Notes to explore the deeper mission of raising strong, capable young adults. Drawing from his lived experience as a second-generation entrepreneur and co-founder of GoBundance, Mike shares why passing down more than just financial wealth matters. He dives into the importance of instilling core values, cultivating strong moral character, and transferring all forms of capital—intellectual, relational, spiritual, and cultural—across generations. You’ll hear why he believes in giving kids “flint and kindling, not the fire,” and how intentional family rhythms, estate planning, and meaningful connection prepare children to earn their legacy rather than inherit it by default. With raw insight into parenting teens, nurturing family culture, and building trust through connection over correction, this episode is a must-listen for any father committed to long-term impact and generational success.

Guest Link:

• Website
• LinkedIn
• GoBundance

Links and Resources:

• Transform Your Body with Ned & RUK Fitness: 
• RUK Fitness
• This episode is sponsored by The Adventure of Fatherhood
• Order The Adventure of Fatherhood children's book here
• Check out the TEDx

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Want to learn more about The Adventure of Fatherhood?

• https://www.adventureoffatherhood.com/
• https://www.rebelandcreate.com/

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Former NFL player turned real estate developer and advocate, Corey Parchman, sits down with Ned to share his deeply personal journey through loss, perseverance, and purpose. From building the first all-boys preschool in America to writing The IVF Playbook for Men, Corey opens up about the challenges of navigating infertility, the lessons of “no free lunch” learned from childhood, and the importance of filling the gaps as the CEO of your family. With raw honesty and unwavering faith, Corey offers fathers practical wisdom on raising boys to be men of character, leading with presence, and creating a legacy that reaches far beyond the field.

Guest Links:

• LinkedIn
• Instagram
• IVF Playbook for Men
• Book – The IVF Playbook for Men: Available on Amazon

Links and Resources:

• Transform Your Body with Ned & RUK Fitness: 
• RUK Fitness
• This episode is sponsored by The Adventure of Fatherhood
• Order The Adventure of Fatherhood children's book here
• Check out the TEDx

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Want to learn more about The Adventure of Fatherhood?

• https://www.adventureoffatherhood.com/
• https://www.rebelandcreate.com/

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As summer winds down, Ned invites fathers to take ownership of this pivotal moment — the start of a new school year. In this short, impactful solo episode of Craft of Fatherhood, Ned breaks down how this seasonal transition offers a unique opportunity for leadership in the home. Whether it’s adjusting bedtime, introducing morning devotions, or revising the family chore chart, this is your moment to lead with intention, structure, and love.

You’ll hear how Ned and Sarah are sitting down one-on-one with each of their kids, helping them shape the year ahead — a practical example any dad can implement. Tune in for a motivating reminder that being proactive now sets the tone for deeper connection, stronger habits, and a smoother ride for the whole family.

Links and Resources:

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Transform Your Body with Ned & RUK Fitness

This episode is sponsored by The Adventure of Fatherhood

Order The Adventure of Fatherhood children's book here

Check out the TEDx

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Want to learn more about The Adventure of Fatherhood?

https://www.adventureoffatherhood.com/

https://www.rebelandcreate.com/

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In this heartfelt episode of Fatherhood Field Notes, Ned sits down with Jaz Yglesias—a passionate music teacher, jiu-jitsu coach, and lifelong contributor to his family and community. Jaz opens up about raising a blended family, grieving the loss of his daughter, and how martial arts isn’t just self-defense—it’s soul development. From his belief in honoring seven generations to his insistence on work ethic, contribution, and love over comfort, Jaz brings the fire and wisdom today’s dads need. This conversation is a call to action for fathers: be passionate, stay youthful, lead by example, and prepare your kids not just for today—but for a legacy worth inheriting.

Guest Links:

• Instagram
• Shoot Hawai’i Dojo

Links and Resources:

• Transform Your Body with Ned & RUK Fitness: 
• RUK Fitness
• This episode is sponsored by The Adventure of Fatherhood
• Order The Adventure of Fatherhood children's book here
• Check out the TEDx

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Want to learn more about The Adventure of Fatherhood?

• https://www.adventureoffatherhood.com/
• https://www.rebelandcreate.com/

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Ned gets raw and real about something every father needs to hear—the fleeting number of summers we get with our kids. With one child in college and others growing up fast, Ned shares the emotional shift that happens as your family dynamic changes.

He reminds us that while the to-do list will never be done, the moments we have left with our children are limited—and precious. This episode is a wake-up call to slow down, be present, and fully embrace the fatherhood role now. Whether your kids are toddlers or teenagers, this message will hit home.

Links and Resources:

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Transform Your Body with Ned & RUK Fitness

This episode is sponsored by The Adventure of Fatherhood

Order The Adventure of Fatherhood children's book here

Check out the TEDx

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Want to learn more about The Adventure of Fatherhood?

https://www.adventureoffatherhood.com/

https://www.rebelandcreate.com/

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In this deeply candid conversation, FloWater CEO and visionary entrepreneur Raz Razgaitis sits down with Ned Schaut to explore how fatherhood—not business—became his greatest teacher. From scaling tech companies to navigating divorce, Raz shares how his definition of success radically shifted when he chose presence over performance and connection over control. With heartfelt honesty, he unpacks the painful lessons and powerful breakthroughs that emerged through co-parenting, bedtime routines, and letting go of ego. Listeners will walk away with a renewed vision of fatherhood as leadership, and insight into how prioritizing love, integrity, and emotional presence can transform not just your home—but your legacy.

Guest Links:

• Website (FloWater)
• LinkedIn
• Read: Clean Water is Awesome. No, Really!

Links and Resources:

• Transform Your Body with Ned & RUK Fitness: 
• RUK Fitness
• This episode is sponsored by The Adventure of Fatherhood
• Order The Adventure of Fatherhood children's book here
• Check out the TEDx

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Want to learn more about The Adventure of Fatherhood?

• https://www.adventureoffatherhood.com/
• https://www.rebelandcreate.com/

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Ned peels back the curtain on the messy, sacred, and often hilarious real-life moments that define fatherhood. From rescuing his daughter in a parking lot to navigating tough conversations with his son about dirt bikes and responsibility, Ned invites us into the daily decisions that shape our kids—and ourselves. He reflects on presence, parenting with integrity, and the subtle power of being interruptible. This episode reminds every dad that the little, chaotic moments matter—and that showing up, again and again, is heroic.

Links and Resources:

• Transform Your Body with Ned & RUK Fitness: 
• RUK Fitness
• This episode is sponsored by The Adventure of Fatherhood
• Order The Adventure of Fatherhood children's book here
• Check out the TEDx

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Want to learn more about The Adventure of Fatherhood?

• https://www.adventureoffatherhood.com/
• https://www.rebelandcreate.com/

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In this raw and revealing episode, Army and law enforcement veteran Bill Marr opens up about his journey from homeless at 17 to becoming a devoted father of three and founder of Breeze Benefits Group. With Ned, Bill dives deep into the realities of overcoming anxiety, breaking generational cycles, and the relentless work it takes to be present—not perfect—for your children. He shares hard-earned insights like, “Nobody’s coming to save you,” and challenges fathers to “do the work” to show up with integrity, resilience, and love. This episode is a powerful wake-up call for dads to lead with courage, consistency, and vulnerability—because fatherhood is the most important battle you’ll ever fight.

Guest Links:

• Breeze Benefits Website
• Bill on LinkedIn

Links and Resources:

• Transform Your Body with Ned & RUK Fitness: 
• RUK Fitness
• This episode is sponsored by The Adventure of Fatherhood
• Order The Adventure of Fatherhood children's book here
• Check out the TEDx

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Want to learn more about The Adventure of Fatherhood?

• https://www.adventureoffatherhood.com/
• https://www.rebelandcreate.com/

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