Dates & Mates with Damona Hoffman

Financial Foibles & Man With a Plan


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Ever meet someone who feels right on every emotional level, but the finance math ain’t mathin’?

A listener named Ray shares:

"I met a wonderful man online. We went on two amazing dates. He's attentive, attractive, and dare I say we had a magical connection. Here's the thing: it seems he's going through a major life transition. He quit his tech job nine months ago and has been figuring it out. His phone only works on Wi-Fi and he might need to figure out a different living situation to cut costs. I've worked really hard to get to where I'm at today. I'd like someone who could meet me halfway. Is this a deal breaker?"

In this episode, we get real about what financial compatibility actually means and why wanting stability doesn't make you materialistic. You'll hear why a magical connection alone isn't enough and how to tell the difference between someone in transition versus someone who's stuck.

What You'll Hear In This Episode:

  • Red flags that deserve your digital detective skills
  • What "meeting halfway" really means
  • What is a fair contribution to ask from a partner
  • How to contribute if you or your partner earns less 
  • How resentment builds in a new relationship. 
  • The questions you should be asking when someone's story doesn't quite add up
  • Want to track what's working (and what's not) in your dating life?Download the free Date Tracker at damonahoffman.com/datetracker

  • Got a relationship or dating question? DM @DamonaHoffman on Instagram, TikTok, or Facebook, or leave a voicemail or text at 424-246-6255


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