Ali and Roark are switching it up and trying all the new things! But first, they have a rather long list of updates to share. Then, they introduce a segment where they ask, "is that weird or nah?" and answer as many questions as possible submitted by @findingmrheight Instagram followers. Topics range from middle-distance relationships to situationships to lessons we have learned from our dating past. Follow along @findingmrheight on Instagram to participate in the next "weird or nah" poll or submit a question when another grab bag comes around. If you want to submit a longer question, a screenshot, or have general feedback, you can do it all at www.findingmrheight.com/podcast

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As great philosophers once said, "If you wanna be my lover, you gotta get with my friends." The Spice Girls were right! Which is why Ali & Roark are talking all things surrounding meeting the friends. Whether you've decided to make the introduction or you've been asked to meet your new person's friends, Ali & Roark are here for you through the entire process. What does it mean to you to meet someone's friends? How do you make the invitation? And what happens after - like if no one gets along? They read some listener questions and share their own experiences to address these key questions and more!

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Should you get back together with your ex? The bad news: Ali & Roark don’t know. The good news: what they DO know are some questions you can ask yourself when deciding if this is right for you. Using stories of their own and those of friends they discuss how there is no hard-and-fast rule, but there are healthy and unhealthy ways to make the decision.  Have a question for Ali & Roark? Want to send in a screenshot for them to decode? General feedback? Find it all at www.findingmrheight.com/podcast

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Ever feel like you're having a great back and forth with a match over text, but it just never seems to end with a date? Sounds like you're in a pen pal situation, and both Ali and Roark have been there, too! They read listener questions and discuss how to nudge a match into making a date without being "pushy." Also, they open up their own text archives and read through their experiences with pen pals. Want to find and use the pen pal text scripts in this episode? Have a question for Ali & Roark? Want to send in a screenshot for them to decode? General feedback? Find it all at www.findingmrheight.com/podcast

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"If he wanted to, he would" - sound familiar? Spoiler alert: Ali & Roark do not approve this message. They debunk this dating myth and rewrite the common phrase to put the focus on communication and understanding your own needs. But first, Ali confesses she had yet another phone-throwing moment (reset the incident clock!) this week. And the girls analyze a perfect example of "if he wanted to, he would" in the Bravo show Summer House. 

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Boo! Don't worry, this podcast isn't disappearing, but Ali and Roark are talking about men who did! Ghosting. One of the most common problems facing modern dating. First, Ali and Roark define what is and what isn't a ghost. Then, they share stories of times they were ghosted, and Ali reveals her tried-and-true "text script" for how to maturely confront a ghost. Finally, they admit that they, too, have been the ghosters. But Finding Mr. Height is a firmly anti-ghosting podcast, so Ali shares another text script: how to tell someone you're not interested rather than disappear. Spooky stuff!

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This week, Ali and Roark discuss how to talk to people who are skeptical about online dating: parents, friends, and even people ON the apps (we are talking to you lets-lie-about-how-me-met people). But first, Ali confesses to making the same mistake twice in one week and they both muse on the power of sending audio messages to matches. 

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It's only episode two and Ali & Roark are already tackling *that* topic...that's right, dick pics, requests for nudes, and when a match gets too sexual too soon for your comfort level. Before responding to listeners' questions and sharing their own experiences with this behavior, Ali reveals an embarrassing moment with a Bumble match and Roark nervously talks about a promising first date. 

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It's here! The *real* premiere episode of FMH: The Podcast. Get to know your co-hosts as Ali & Roark share both their friendship origin story and walk down memory lane of relationships past. Then, they discuss their vision for the podcast. And finally, Roark tells Ali about a potentially awkward encounter at a recent date's place of business, which reminds Ali of her own story from a few years back. Have a question for Ali & Roark? Want to send in a screenshot for them to decode? General feedback? Find our submission form at www.findingmrheight.com/podcast

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Finding Mr. Height: The Podcast - a teaser!

Meet dating coach Ali from her @findingmrheight TikTok and Instagram and her good friend Roark as they embark on a podcast. Full episode airs on Monday. In the meantime, reach out to Ali & Roark at www.findingmrheight.com/podcast/

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