Ever wondered where phrases like "High value woman", and narratives of women *Having* to settle after arbitrary ages in their early mid 20's came from? Meet Kevin Samuels, the now late youtuber who used his platform of over 1.4 million youtube and Instagram followers to spread these messages and many more!

Today's episode is humor themed, and is a brief glossing of how Kevin Samuels used his platform and time on earth to use women as punchlines and props in his content.

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For large transitions, and when you're scared you're not going to be ok. This episode recounts the events I mentally went through when moving out, and how I came to develop my sense of "I'm gonna be ok no matter what" over a 2 year time span, after moving out of my moms house.

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While I’ve always had an inclination for solitude, I still found myself occasionally buying into the narrative, during my youth and adulthood, where I believed it was one of the worst things that could ever happen to me. Today’s episode is about acceptance of isolation, whether it was self-induced or randomly brought upon you, and how to know when you found peace with it and can even celebrate it. This episode starts at 0 and goes to 100 around 12 minutes in.

Listen to this when you can't get over how much you hate a person, place or thing and want to take your mind back.

Nothing I say can ever prepare you for the logic that will inevitably fly out the window if you feel even a slither of emotion for someone you’re trying to move on from. Let’s start there. However, I am not going to make you feel bad about it. Here’s my indepth thoughts on how to deal, heal and self talk when you’re dealing with a man who won’t let you move on.

So you went through a breakup. Now what? Well, it’s time to decide who you are (you know, after you peel away from all the parts of you that you became while dating that person).

No, this isn’t a long episode about how you need to “just love yourself”. Infact, I didn’t even say that phrase once in the entire episode. This is for anyone who is grappling with all the little things. Like, do you stay friends with their friends? Do you go back to the girl friends they dubbed as “hoes”? And all those things you loved that they called lame, were they really that lame? Spoiler alert, no, yes, and no! But listen anyways just to remind yourself <3

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You don’t want to move on, but everyone around you is telling you it’s been time to. And yet, here we are. I’m not here to shame you, because I’ve been you. Outer circle of people begging me to move on and all. Here’s an understanding take on how to move on when you secretly don’t want too, and what it takes to get you to that place.

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The infamous topic of ghosting has arrived. Ghosting sucks and you’re totally normal for being affected by it. In today’s episode, I attempt to address the need for feedback, closure, answers, an apology, and how to make sense of it all and bounce back when you’re sitting in the feeling of rejection. I also talk about the types of ghosters, reasons they do it, and how it’s not your job to make them unghost you.

In today's episode we discuss making an identity out of pain and how we end up letting moments of rejection, separation or unfortunate situations unnecessarily define us. How this can be harmful to us, why we shouldn't do it, and allowing ourselves to move forward with self forgiveness and fluidity. This is discussed in relation to breakups, losing jobs, and any jarring life event that feels like we'll never be able to let go or move on from.