Fleekazoid

It’s a trying *ss time to be a positive person. Is this what living through history feels like? Today we’re talking about spiraling into a doom mindset and being a doomer. Making doom your identity and the center of all your conversations (without dismissing the times).

Today's episode is answering FAQ and is a pre-episode as an intro to season 2 of the Fleekazoid podcast. We discuss where I've been, where I'd like to go, and give an update on my personal life (trigger warning: scorpio mention jump scare alert). The purpose is to set the mood for what's to come and to provide background context and personal notes behind the episodes and my content.

This episode discusses scams, red flags, and things to look for when dating beneficially and sugaring. These are things that cross over into vanilla dating and can be helpful in scenario's outside of just regular sugaring. 

So you blocked and unblocked him? Maybe you've done this more than once. Maybe you've even done it over the course of years. Whether you did it unprompted or if he resurfaced and elicited you to do it, today's episode is for the girls who are stuck in this pattern, and we talk about how to break it and come to your senses (with love and compassion!).

Today's episode addresses the topic of feeling like we don't have value until a man decides to see it in us by dating, or committing to us. This episode fights back against the idea that you can't have excitement, purpose, and fulfillment in your world without a man in it. Why you CAN have all these things, and how waiting for man to fulfill that role can be codependent and toxic to your sense of self and progress.

Debating on if it's time to block that man? Today's episode will push you over that cliff you're staring down. But first, two personal story times by Fleeksie! One based off a man from a previous podcast episode (Limerence and emotional dysregulation ft. the felon) and a second story time that inspired this episode specifically. This is meant to motivate you to stop holding out false hope that THAT man will ever change (spoiler alert - he wont) and to slam that door on his face once and for all.

The word dusty gets thrown around so often, but what does it even mean? It seems like the ultimate insult, but is it an actual archetype? Today's episode defines dusty in the way fleeksie uses it and the ways it can be embodied by a man. We also discuss how these various embodiments of a dusty can affect your life, and what you should watch out for if you are dealing with this type of individual. We also discuss why it is so much more than a man who is just broke or 50/50 minded, and how your life path can be forever altered by one.

Today's episode discusses emotional unavailability in dating! How it can be socially ingrained, and why it's not your job to make a man who's emotionally unavailable, to available.

In todays episode, we discuss why you should operate ruthlessly in favor of yourself and make it everyone else's problem! How this mindset plays into dating, self validation, and sense of self worth. We also discuss being judged, how you will never be able to avoid it, and why trying to mitigate and minimize judgement from outsiders is a band aid on an issue that will never go away.

Today's episode addresses the highly sought out question of "Where did you get so much confidence?". We discuss misconceptions of confidence and self esteem, knowing who you are, defining yourself, and addressing the topic of putting yourself online on a social media platform when you have people in your sphere who might judge you for it. We discuss why those people are wrong and stupid, and why you should cut them all off! This episode also shares a small story time of fleeksie's upbringing as a child, and how parents who coddle you from negativity and bullies are not a factor of your present self esteem.