Get Over Divorce

Want to feel better after divorce but keep getting stuck, even though you know what you "should" do? I break down why healing feels so hard for smart, capable women, plus 10 steps that actually move the needle. No quick fixes and no sugarcoating, just honest tools for more peace, clarity, and confidence after divorce.

Ready for real transformation after divorce? Work with me:
The Get Over Divorce Collective, 6 months of coaching with me: https://getoverdivorce.com/join
The Circle, live group coaching for $197/month: https://getoverdivorce.com/circle
Free quiz, Discover Your Divorced Goddess Archetype: https://getoverdivorce.com/goddess
Read more and subscribe on Substack: https://substack.com/@getoverdivorce

Setting boundaries that keep getting trampled? Learn the biggest myth about boundaries that keeps women exhausted and resentful, and why expecting others to keep your boundaries for you never works. I share my 3-step framework for boundaries with a difficult ex, pushy friends, family, and new partners, so you can reclaim your power and energy after divorce.

Ready for real transformation after divorce? Work with me:
The Get Over Divorce Collective, 6 months of coaching with me: https://getoverdivorce.com/join
The Circle, live group coaching for $197/month: https://getoverdivorce.com/circle
Free quiz, Discover Your Divorced Goddess Archetype: https://getoverdivorce.com/goddess
Read more and subscribe on Substack: https://substack.com/@getoverdivorce

Insecurity after divorce shows up in sneaky ways: perfectionism, people-pleasing, fear of dating, and never being able to make a decision. Learn to spot how insecurity keeps midlife women stuck in their comfort zone, and get three proven strategies to build real confidence so you can create the relationships and life you deserve.

Ready for real transformation after divorce? Work with me:
The Get Over Divorce Collective, 6 months of coaching with me: https://getoverdivorce.com/join
The Circle, live group coaching for $197/month: https://getoverdivorce.com/circle
Free quiz, Discover Your Divorced Goddess Archetype: https://getoverdivorce.com/goddess
Read more and subscribe on Substack: https://substack.com/@getoverdivorce

My husband Joe and I celebrate 15 years of marriage, slightly tipsy, with the 15 biggest lessons we've learned. Communication, blended family life, intimacy, stress, and keeping romance alive in a second marriage. It's funny, honest, and unfiltered, and it's proof that a happy, healthy love after divorce is possible.

Ready for real transformation after divorce? Work with me:
The Get Over Divorce Collective, 6 months of coaching with me: https://getoverdivorce.com/join
The Circle, live group coaching for $197/month: https://getoverdivorce.com/circle
Free quiz, Discover Your Divorced Goddess Archetype: https://getoverdivorce.com/goddess
Read more and subscribe on Substack: https://substack.com/@getoverdivorce

Your brain is wired for negativity, which is why it's so easy to get stuck in the "pit of misery" after divorce or heartbreak. Learn the science of optimism and how to rewire your thinking to go from anxious, stuck, and overwhelmed to calm, confident, and joyful. No toxic positivity, just tools that work.

Ready for real transformation after divorce? Work with me:
The Get Over Divorce Collective, 6 months of coaching with me: https://getoverdivorce.com/join
The Circle, live group coaching for $197/month: https://getoverdivorce.com/circle
Free quiz, Discover Your Divorced Goddess Archetype: https://getoverdivorce.com/goddess
Read more and subscribe on Substack: https://substack.com/@getoverdivorce

Divorce doesn't define you, but the mindset you choose after it does. We talk about the two identities every woman navigates after divorce: the wounded woman stuck in a fixed mindset, and the awakened woman who grows, leads herself, and takes her power back. Learn to spot the patterns keeping you small and step into the woman you're meant to be.

Ready for real transformation after divorce? Work with me:
The Get Over Divorce Collective, 6 months of coaching with me: https://getoverdivorce.com/join
The Circle, live group coaching for $197/month: https://getoverdivorce.com/circle
Free quiz, Discover Your Divorced Goddess Archetype: https://getoverdivorce.com/goddess
Read more and subscribe on Substack: https://substack.com/@getoverdivorce

One of the most powerful shifts after divorce is decentering your ex. Learn how to stop revolving around his choices, your kids' schedules, and everyone else's chaos, and put yourself back at the center of your life. Peace while co-parenting doesn't come from controlling what happens at his house. It comes from reclaiming your energy and attention.

Ready for real transformation after divorce? Work with me:
The Get Over Divorce Collective, 6 months of coaching with me: https://getoverdivorce.com/join
The Circle, live group coaching for $197/month: https://getoverdivorce.com/circle
Free quiz, Discover Your Divorced Goddess Archetype: https://getoverdivorce.com/goddess
Read more and subscribe on Substack: https://substack.com/@getoverdivorce

One of the most common dating mistakes divorced women make: choosing men who need fixing. You're wiser and stronger now, and it's time to stop settling. Learn how to spot this toxic dating pattern, build confidence after divorce, and attract a partner who shows up fully as the man he already is, not someone you have to mold, coach, or raise.

Ready for real transformation after divorce? Work with me:
The Get Over Divorce Collective, 6 months of coaching with me: https://getoverdivorce.com/join
The Circle, live group coaching for $197/month: https://getoverdivorce.com/circle
Free quiz, Discover Your Divorced Goddess Archetype: https://getoverdivorce.com/goddess
Read more and subscribe on Substack: https://substack.com/@getoverdivorce

Exhausted from shape-shifting to be liked? We dig into why you care so much about what people think, whether it's your boss, your family, your friends, or a date, and how the fear of judgment quietly runs your life. Learn the mindset shifts that help you stop trying to be liked and start being known, especially after divorce.

Ready for real transformation after divorce? Work with me:
The Get Over Divorce Collective, 6 months of coaching with me: https://getoverdivorce.com/join
The Circle, live group coaching for $197/month: https://getoverdivorce.com/circle
Free quiz, Discover Your Divorced Goddess Archetype: https://getoverdivorce.com/goddess
Read more and subscribe on Substack: https://substack.com/@getoverdivorce

Tired of playing small, stuck in emotional loops from your marriage, or wondering "Is this all there is?" This is your wake-up call. I walk you through the shift from the wounded woman who tolerates and shrinks to the awakened woman who speaks up, sets boundaries, and rebuilds her life on her own terms after divorce.

Ready for real transformation after divorce? Work with me:
The Get Over Divorce Collective, 6 months of coaching with me: https://getoverdivorce.com/join
The Circle, live group coaching for $197/month: https://getoverdivorce.com/circle
Free quiz, Discover Your Divorced Goddess Archetype: https://getoverdivorce.com/goddess
Read more and subscribe on Substack: https://substack.com/@getoverdivorce