We talk about the new gift-giving quiz that divides people into four categories

depending on the kinds of gifts they prefer to receive: Tried-and-True, Easy-to-Please, Enthusiast, and Connoisseur. We remind ourselves of the very helpful

hack to check behind you each time you leave a place. We also share listeners’

many helpful suggestions about how to handle the final days of a family member

or friend.

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The old story about “The Dog in the Manger” is a reminder that if there’s something we can’t enjoy or make us of, we should back away and let someone else benefit from it.

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We talk about our response for trying—for the first time!—the famous flavor of pumpkin spice latte. We also discuss the secret of a making a convincing TV pitch, and how group texts can strengthen family bonds.

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We talk about how and why the creative challenge of coming up with “___ is the

new ___” observations sparks happiness. We also talk about enjoying the five-

senses experiences of Halloween, and the fun of the new thrift ghost-painting

challenge. Plus, a listener asks how to listen to podcasts to help ourselves fall

asleep.

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In South Carolina, three thoughtful passers-by stopped to comfort a weeping stranger—and had the opportunity to share a joyful moment with author Hernan Diaz, who had just learned that he’d won the Pulitzer Prize.

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We suggest several practical solutions to common, but challenging, social

situations. We also address a listener’s question, “Do Questioners ever experience

Questioner-rebellion?” and discuss the know-yourself-better question of “Is your

birthday important to you?”

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At the top of one of the most significant pages of his notebooks, Charles Darwin wrote “I think.” There are three good reasons to explain why he might have done so.

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We talk about how Elizabeth’s novel-writing is going, now that the Hollywood writers’ strike is over. Inspired by a recent wedding, we discuss the huge contribution that old friends can make to our happiness. Plus we highlight a great suggestion from a listener about how Obligers (and people around Obligers) can create useful accountability.

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We talk about why making a visual representation of a challenge can help us

make tough decisions. We also share listeners’ suggestions about improvements

they’ve made to their daily routines, and Elizabeth reveals the brand of running

shoe that cured her foot pain.

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My daughter’s experience helping with little kids at school illustrates the same principle as the sponsorship program in A.A.: by giving support, we gain.

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