In this episode, Lily Rakow and I talk about navigating your 20s and how to become your best self in 2025 with more clarity and intention, even in the waiting. We dive into the struggles of balancing school, career goals, and personal growth, especially during seasons of waiting and uncertainty. Lily shares her thoughts on building meaningful friendships, leaning on community, and finding balance with the 80/20 principle—because life shouldn’t be all hustle. If you’re feeling stuck or unsure about what’s next, this conversation will leave you encouraged and ready to take on the new year with a fresh perspective!

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Background

02:58 The Psychology of Multitasking

06:09 Navigating Education and Career Choices

10:11 The Waiting Room: Seeking Clarity in Life

17:01 Training in the Waiting Room: Growth and Faith

22:26 The Importance of Connection and Friendships

23:32 Navigating Uncertainty and Goal Setting

26:21 Finding Perspective in Progress

28:03 Understanding Dreams and God's Vision

30:02 Vulnerability and Support in Friendships

33:20 The 80/20 Principle: Balancing Life and Fun

38:57 Wrapping Up

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psychology, multitasking, education, career, faith, personal growth, mental health, waiting room, clarity, community, friendship, goal setting, personal growth, vulnerability, 80/20 principle, faith, encouragement, life balance, dreams, community

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