talking through the mental blocks that can occur when we get stuck on comparing ourselves to others in a way that hinders our ability to be HOT and HAVE FUN !!!

03:33 - radical acceptance

05:11 - practicing gratitude

07:07 - set intentions

07:52 - lean into irony when being serious feels like a joke

08:37 - abundance vs delusion

09:45 - your mindset affects your decision making

11:00 - awareness + intentional action

11:28 - practice connecting with your experience of life

11:41 - you will face challenges no matter what

13:10 - rejection is protection and redirection

14:14 - nobody knows what they’re doing

15:58 - other people’s success are evidence of what is possible

18:03 - be honest with yourself about the lengths you will go

18:25 - your own story unfolds through action, not comparison

19:27 - additional thoughts

20:22 - there's more than just what you think or have been told is 'success'

21:00 - understanding your validation needs

22:28 - how my idea of success as a DJ has changed over time

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