The One You Feed | Personal Growth, Emotional Resilience & Purpose

How a Little Becomes a Lot: A Real Coaching Session on Small Changes That Stick


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In this special episode, Eric coaches a listener named Birgit as she rebuilds her daily routine after a long-term illness and her children leaving home. Together, they explore practical strategies for habit formation, focusing on starting with a consistent healthy habits. Using frameworks like SPAR and RENEW, they discuss breaking habits into small steps, planning ahead, and responding compassionately to setbacks. The conversation highlights the importance of structure, self-kindness, and progress over perfection, offering listeners actionable advice for building sustainable routines during life transitions.


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Key Takeaways:

  • Rebuilding life after a long-term illness and navigating changes in daily structure.
  • Establishing a consistent morning routine, focusing on a healthy breakfast habit.
  • The importance of specificity and simplicity in habit formation.
  • Strategies for reducing decision fatigue and avoiding procrastination.
  • The SPA framework: Specificity, Prompts, Alignment, and Resilience for habit building.
  • The RENEW framework for resetting habits after setbacks: Recognize, Embrace your Why, Neutralize emotional drama, Extract the lesson, and Walk forward.
  • The role of self-compassion and positive self-talk in maintaining habits.
  • The significance of small, manageable actions to overcome resistance.
  • The impact of environmental setup on habit formation and behavior.
  • Emphasizing progress over perfection in the journey of habit change.
  • For full show notes:⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click here⁠⁠⁠!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    If you enjoyed this episode, check out these other episodes:

    Why Willpower Isn’t Enough: The Tiny Habits Method Explained with Dr. BJ Fogg

    How to Create Elastic Habits that Adapt to Your Day with Stephen Guise


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