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Remy and Charlotte close out the season by calling Cumpanions from around the globe to Cumgratulate them on their new accumplishments this year.

Wow -- that's a lot of cum puns and it's only the first sentence! We chat with people from South Africa, to New Jersey, to L.A. and Michigan. First ever orgasms, first squirts, first partnered orgasms, anal orgasms, AND a cumpanion swipes her v-card.

This episode, like this season was/is cumazing.

Thanks for cumming & listening; we will miss you all!

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Stay in touch with us while we're away! @howcumpodcast @remykassimir @charkasstic

Visit our website to find more show dates, shop our merch, and shop our partners at howcumpodcast.com

Will you miss us in the off-season? Get access to full episodes from Season 3 and extras from Season 2 on Patreon.com/howcum!

This week we are talking BDSM! Everything from being a Sub, Dom--to both, to catching a whip with your genitals and exploring your sexual fantasies. Remy welcomes NYC stand-up comedian Rachel Sennott to learn about BDSM and we are joined by Professional Dominatrix and sexpert Mistress Couple. She guides us through her initiation into the world of bondage and dominance and her first night moving into La Domaine Esemar, the oldest BDSM chateau in the world.

We talk about the importance of consent within the BDSM community, and how it has changed over the years, the psychological aspect of behind being a Dom, and what your fantasies say about you. We also discuss how your senses can heighten sexual pleasure and how you can train to use them to your advantage – even through something as simple as eating a bowl of spaghetti or an egg-roll.

Finally, we discuss different types of instruments and types of play; psychological, financial domination, tickling, and the importance of aftercare. We also discuss what a balloon fantasy is and which of our guests has one!

Stay tuned for a sneak peek of our Live Podcast about Herpes at the end of the episode, and head on over to Patreon to listen to the full episode.

Follow us: @TreaclyChild @MistressCouple @HowCumPodcast @RemyKassimir and @Charkasstic

Join us for our next LIVE podcast September 26th 9pm at The Stand about losing your orgasm and finding it again- with special guests Nikki Glaser and Andrew Collin!

This episode has EXTRAS available on Patreon.com/HowCum

Thank you for all the love over the past year, we LOVE YOU and couldn't do it without you. If you want to support the show, please oh please consider helping us in the following ways:

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This week we are talking about a bodily function that effects our lives and helps to give life: our PERIODS! We are joined by two giants in the period space;

Miki Agrawal, co-founder of THINX and Tushy and Nadya Okamoto, founder of Period. The Menstrual Movement, which aims to end period poverty and period stigma.

We commiserate about how we have felt about our respective periods, from first periods to now. We talk about the various methods we've used for them; from tampons, to cups, to pads, period panties, and more. We discuss navigating sex with periods, how various religious practices contribute to period stigma, and how/why these two women started their companies. We talk about the meaning of feminism and how it isn't women against men, it's gender equality. And finally, we talk about pooping.

CW- Heteronormative / gendered language

Follow us: @MikiAgrawal @NadyaOkamoto @Howcumpodcast @Remykassimir @charkasstic

Read Nadya's Book Period Power: A Manifesto for the Menstrual Movement and Miki's Book Disrupt-Her: A Manifesto for the Modern Woman

Check out 'Approved, Not Approved' and play their game to see what advertising the MTA will and won't allow.

Go to our website HowCumPodcast.com for show dates and to shop our NEW MERCH! This episode has EXTRAS which will be available on Patreon.com/HowCum

Thank you for all the love over the past year, we LOVE YOU and couldn't do it without you. If you want to support the show, please oh please consider helping us in the following ways:

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We're discussing all things BOOBS this week: How we feel about them in society, how we've felt about our own, and every question you've ever wondered about yours, but were too afraid to ask!

Remy is joined by Suzannah Weiss, a freelance sex writer for Glamour, Teen Vogue, Playboy, and New York Magazine, as well as Meshelle, the hilarious "Indie Mom of Comedy" and recipient of the prestigious Soros Fellowship award. We're talking everything from nipple hair to nipple sensitivity (for men AND women), the shape and size of your boobs to instructions on how to properly play with them, breastfeeding, and breast cancer and the BRCA gene. Meshelle shares her experience with a less traditional, all-natural route for treating her breast cancer; and Suzannah tells us about how her recent experience in an Ayahuasca retreat in Europe helped her to appreciate her own boobs more.

CW- Gendered/ binary language

Follow us: @MeshelleComedy @SuzannahWeiss @Howcumpodcast @RemyKassimir @charkasstic

Go to our website HowCumPodcast.com to shop our NEW MERCH!

This episode has EXTRAS on Patreon.com/HowCum

Thank you for all the love over the past year, we LOVE YOU and couldn't do it without you. If you want to support the show, please oh please consider helping us in the following ways:

1) Donate on our Patreon page at www.patreon.com/howcum. You will receive awesome extras, BONUS EPISODES, photos, etc. and all proceeds go to creating this podcast!

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Trigger Warning: rape, suicide and abuse. We want you to enjoy our content, but please make sure to take care of yourself; some of the following material can be sensitive to some listeners.

We talk to Syd Wilder, comedian, insta-model and host of the "Girl Instarupted" podcast. We're talking everything from surviving suicide to growing up at the Playboy Mansion and everything in between. Syd opens up about her sexual assault, suicide attempts and previous sexual and family relationships; as well as her experience in a psych-ward. We discuss how she has turned her darkest moments into an empowering experience rather than a spiteful situation that controls her life. She shares stories of her first marriage, what it's like dating different "types" of guys, how she contracted HPV and Cervical Cancer and has triumphed over it all and learned how to love herself along the way. We also talk BDSM and *SPOILER ALERT* we have a new ASSIGNMENT!

If you or someone you know may be struggling with suicidal thoughts, you can call the U.S. National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 800-273-TALK (8255) any time day or night, or chat online.

Crisis Text Line also provides free, 24/7, confidential support via text message to people in crisis when they dial 741741.

Follow us: @Sydwilder @Howcumpodcast @Remykassimir @charkasstic

We still have tickets for our LIVE show in NYC August 14th!

Go to our website HowCumPodcast.com to shop MERCH!

Thank you for all the love over the past year, we LOVE YOU and couldn't do it without you. If you want to support the show, please oh please consider helping us in the following ways:

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This week's guest is Ev'Yan Whitney: sexuality doula™, sex educator & facilitator, and the host of the podcast The Sexually Liberated Woman. Ev'yan has helped thousands of women and femme-identifying people step out of shame, fear, and trauma and into sexual liberation through online courses, in-person workshops, and one-on-one sessions. In this episode we hear Ev'yan's story of how personal traumas and struggles of enjoying sex with her husband led to helping others-- and herself. We talk about her growth, what it means to be a queer person in a heteronormative seeming relationship, what being "ready" for sex really means, and how Ev'Yan and her husband took the steps to enter into an open relationship. We also discuss some of the assignments Ev'yan gives clients, as well as favorite success stories.

CW- Heteronormative language

NOTE: Ev'yan came out with they/them pronouns a few years after this episode, cumgrats!

Follow us: @Evyanwhitney @Howcumpodcast @Remykassimir @charkasstic

We still have tickets for our LIVE show in NYC August 14th!

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This episode has EXTRAS available on Patreon.com/HowCum

Thank you for all the love over the past year, we LOVE YOU and couldn't do it without you. If you want to support the show, please oh please consider helping us in the following ways:

1) Donate on our Patreon page at www.patreon.com/howcum. You will receive awesome extras, BONUS EPISODES, photos, etc. and all proceeds go to creating this podcast!

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OMG we could not be more excited for this guest!! Remy sits down with (and fan-girls over) the original Carrie Bradshaw, Candace Bushnell; icon, it-girl and critically acclaimed, international best-selling author of nine books, including the infamous Sex and the City.

We discuss her new book, Is There Still Sex in the City?, how sex throughout life changes, and what life after divorce is like. Candace regales us with stories about sexually coming of age in the 70s and 80s, celebrity encounters, and dalliances with older and younger men. She defines new dating terms from her book like, "bicycle boys," "cubbing," and "super-middles." We also hear about her first orgasm and losing her virginity just to lose it. You do NOT want to miss this one!

CW: Gendered, heteronormative, binary language

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Follow us @Howcumpodcast @CandaceBushnell @RemyKassimir @Charkasstic

Visit our website HowCumPodcast.com to shop our NEW MERCH! This episode has EXTRAS available on Patreon.com/HowCum

Thank you for all the love over the past year, we LOVE YOU and couldn't do it without you. If you want to support the show, please oh please consider helping us in the following ways:

1) Donate on our Patreon page at www.patreon.com/howcum. You will receive awesome extras, BONUS EPISODES, photos, etc. and all proceeds go to creating this podcast!

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Sadly, Remy couldn't be here to host this episode… because today, she is our GUEST. This week Charlotte interviews Remy about her biggest takeaways from the season and where she's at now, SEXUALLY. Also, the Cumpanions submitted amazing, important questions and they are ALL answered in this episode: from cumming tips & tricks, to how to tell a partner about your struggle to orgasm, to more personal questions about depression and the importance of vulnerability. There is ALSO a sneak peek into upcoming episodes, so hang on tight cause this one is a wild ride.

CW: Heteronormative + binary language

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Follow us @HowCumPodcast @RemyKassimir @Charkasstic

Visit our website HowCumPodcast.com to shop our NEW MERCH!

This episode has EXTRAS which will be available on Patreon.com/HowCum

Thank you for all the love over the past year, we LOVE YOU and couldn't do it without you. If you want to support the show, please oh please consider helping us in the following ways:

1) Donate on our Patreon page at www.patreon.com/howcum. You will receive awesome extras, BONUS EPISODES, photos, etc. and all proceeds go to creating this podcast!

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Warning: This episode contains deep thoughts and SICK banter.

In this VERY EXCITING How Cum/ We Really Love Island crossover event Remy, Charlotte, and comedian Lili Michelle (Remy's WRLI Season 2 Co-host) interview Season 1 Love Island UK contestant,

Chris Williamson!

Chris calls in via Skype to talk love, sex and secrets behind the making of Love Island. We also chat about how to dump someone properly, the importance of honesty and external accountability, and his wild "first time" story.

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CW- Gendered, binary, trans exclusionary, racism

Follow us @HowCumPodcast @RemyKassimir @Charkasstic @lilsmichelle @ChrisWillx

To hear more from Chris, check out his podcast Modern Wisdom.

Visit our website HowCumPodcast.com to shop our NEW MERCH!

This episode has EXTRAS available on Patreon.com/HowCum

Thank you for all the love over the past year, we LOVE YOU and couldn't do it without you. If you want to support the show, please oh please consider helping us in the following ways:

1) Donate on our Patreon page at www.patreon.com/howcum. You will receive awesome extras, BONUS EPISODES, photos, etc. and all proceeds go to creating this podcast!

2) Subscribe, share, and leave us a rating/review on iTunes. It helps us get in touch with great new podcast guests and listeners!

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We're talking all things PENISES! Remy and Charlotte interview Dr. Eid, a board-certified urologist focusing on the treatment of advanced erectile dysfunction. He specializes in penile implant surgery, and also treats urinary incontinence after prostate cancer. He is one of New York's leading penis prosthesis surgeons and is here to answer YOUR questions! We are talking why E.D. occurs, how to treat it, and how sometimes it might be an indication of a larger medical problem. Dr. Eid also answers Cumpanion questions ranging from; "are there medical benefits to circumcision?", "do you need a boner to come?", "is "blue balls" really so bad?" and more!

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CW: Gendered/ trans exclusionary language

Follow us @HowCumPodcast @RemyKassimir @Charkasstic

Visit our website HowCumPodcast.com to shop our NEW MERCH!

This episode has EXTRAS on Patreon.com/HowCum

Thank you for all the love over the past year, we LOVE YOU and couldn't do it without you. If you want to support the show, please oh please consider helping us in the following ways:

1) Donate on our Patreon page at www.patreon.com/howcum. You will receive awesome extras, BONUS EPISODES, photos, etc. and all proceeds go to creating this podcast!

2) Subscribe, share, and leave us a rating/review on iTunes. It helps us get in touch with great new podcast guests and listeners!

3) Stay close with us by following us and reaching out on social:

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