StRest with Kerstin Lindquist

How Lia Valencia Key Turned Childhood Trauma into a Movement of Joy, Faith, and Wearable Purpose


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This is StRest! In this episode, Kerstin Lindquist welcomes entrepreneur, speaker, and “yellow-powered” light-bearer Lia Valencia Key. Lia recounts a childhood marked by poverty, food insecurity, and intermittent homelessness in Philadelphia housing projects. Guided by her mother’s mantra—“Your predicament doesn’t determine your destiny”—she used education as her way out, becoming the first in her family to attend college.

Lia shares how early trauma imprints stress on the body but can also build resilience when paired with faith. She discusses how maternal stress and nutrition impact DNA, and how whole-food eating and “brain training” supported her healing after a hysterectomy. Her shift from scarcity to joy began with intentional choices—surrounding herself with yellow, practicing gratitude, and limiting negative emotions.

Her brand, Valencia Key Jewelry, fuses “Valencia” (courage) and “Key” (unlocking light) into wearable reminders to choose joy daily. From styling QVC hosts to seeing her designs on Oprah and Meghan Markle, Lia views each milestone as divine affirmation. She urges listeners to pursue destiny one “millimeter” at a time.

The episode covers stress-reduction practices like movement, prayer, and setting emotional boundaries. Lia’s mantra—anger may visit but never reside—offers a guide for emotional peace. The show wraps with a call to “keep going, keep growing,” and a preview of Kerstin’s upcoming sleep episode.

Whether you’re battling anxiety or chasing purpose, Lia’s story proves light can rise from darkness when faith fuels action.


Major Themes & Concepts

  • Restoring joy through intentional visual cues

  • Poverty stress and food‑scarcity trauma

  • Mother’s wisdom: destiny over predicament

  • Education as a doorway to possibility

  • “Millimeter movement” for sustainable change

  • Releasing anger on a fixed timer

  • Choosing love as daily actionable verb

  • Guarding inputs to protect mental health

  • Faith as foundation for entrepreneurship

  • Small businesses, peaks, valleys, perseverance

    Chapter Breakdown

    • 00:00 – Hunger, Housing Projects, and Childhood Stress

    •  02:50 – Food Lines, Absent Father, Compounded Trauma

    •  08:05 – Mother’s Two Sentences That Reframed Destiny

    •  13:30 – Grades, After‑School Programs, and College Escape

    •  19:45 – Birth of Valencia Key: Courage Meets Craft

    •  27:10 – Daily Practice: Limiting Anger and Choosing Joy

    •  34:20 – “One Millimeter at a Time” Growth Strategy

    •  40:15 – Meghan Markle, Oprah, and Divine Affirmations

    •  46:00 – Stress Release: Singing, Movement, Supportive Circle

    •  53:30 – Parting Advice: Find Joy; Guard Your Inputs

      Work with Kerstin

      ⁠Workshops & Events⁠ – Join upcoming events & retreats.

      ⁠Health Coaching with Kerstin⁠ – 1:1 coaching for stress reduction & wellness.


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      Connect with Lia Valencia Key

      Website: ⁠⁠valenciakey.com⁠⁠

      Shop Jewelry: ⁠⁠valenciakey.com/collections⁠⁠

      Instagram (Brand): ⁠⁠@valenciakeydesign⁠⁠

      Instagram (Lia): ⁠⁠@liavalenciakey


      More about Kerstin

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      Facebook:⁠ Kerstin Lindquist⁠

      YouTube:⁠ @Kerstin.lindquist⁠

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