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How Past Trauma Affects Your Relationships and What to Do About It with Dr. Ray Doktor
Have you ever wondered why you keep stuck in the same negative relationship patterns?
In today’s episode, I sit down with Dr. Ray Doktor, a life and relationship coach, to discuss how past trauma, big or small, can hijack your ability to feel safe, loved, and connected. We dive deep into the science of how our brains, particularly the amygdala, trigger stress responses that sabotage intimacy and trust.
Dr. Ray shares actionable steps to heal emotional wounds, break free from self-sabotage, and empower yourself in love. Plus, we talk about practical ways to rewire your beliefs about relationships so you can finally attract the love and connection you deserve.
Whether you’re struggling with trust or trauma or simply want a better understanding of relationship dynamics, this episode is for you. Dr. Ray also shares exercises from his book All It Takes Is One and a free masterclass designed to help you transform your love life.
Key Questions Discussed:
How does the amygdala affect trust and safety in relationships, especially in terms of libido and intimacy?
What role does trauma, both large and small, play in self-sabotage and relationship dynamics?
What are the signs that someone is self-sabotaging in relationships, and how can they identify these patterns?
How can people break out of negative patterns, heal from trauma, and improve their relationships?
How can one differentiate between legitimate relationship concerns and self-sabotage?
About the Guest:
Dr. Ray Doktor, a renowned life and relationship coach and bestselling author, has empowered over 6,000 clients since 1995 to break through limiting beliefs and overcome life's challenges, significantly enhancing their confidence, self-trust, and happiness. Holding a doctorate in clinical psychology, a master's in counseling psychology, and a bachelor's in human behavior, Dr. Ray combines his extensive expertise with advanced techniques like hypnotherapy, EMDR, NLP, and ancient practices such as qigong and meditation to offer a holistic approach to mental well-being.??A sought-after speaker, Dr. Ray has shared stages with luminaries like Marianne Williamson, Bruce Lipton, John Gray, and Eckhart Tolle. His influential voice has reached audiences worldwide through appearances on E!, HBO, KCAL 9 Los Angeles, LA Talk Radio, and Talk America Radio. His insights have been featured in Psychology Today, Men’s Health, and the Los Angeles Times.
Learn more about Dr. Ray Doktor:
💖https://raydoktor.com.
💖https://www.allittakesisonebook.com/
💖https://www.instagram.com/drraydoktorcoaching
💖https://www.facebook.com/raydoktor
💖https://www.youtube.com/raydoktor
💖https://www.tiktok.com/@raydoktor
Our advocacy is centered around providing a supportive space for women to reclaim sexual vitality and joy for good. Help us achieve this by subscribing to our podcast and sharing us with your friends and family.
💖 Join our Next Libido Masterclass (mylibidodoc.com/)
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More Libido Lounge
✨ Website | mylibidodoc.com/podcasts/
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(0:00) Introduction to Dr. Ray Doktor
(0:34) Trust, Safety, and Libido in Relationships
(3:47) Hypervigilance, Trauma, and Intimacy
(6:38) Breaking Bad Relationship Patterns and Self-Sabotage
(11:50) Self-Awareness and Empowerment in Relationships
(15:18) Real-Life Examples and Exercises for Relationship Healing
(20:51) Action Steps and Coaching for Relationship Readiness
(23:09) Attracting the Right Partner and Dr. Ray Doktor's Resources
(26:16) Addressing Self-Sabotage and Final Steps
(28:09) End-of-Year Deep Dive Promo
(28:40) Closing Remarks and Contact Info
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Have you ever wondered why you keep stuck in the same negative relationship patterns?
In today’s episode, I sit down with Dr. Ray Doktor, a life and relationship coach, to discuss how past trauma, big or small, can hijack your ability to feel safe, loved, and connected. We dive deep into the science of how our brains, particularly the amygdala, trigger stress responses that sabotage intimacy and trust.
Dr. Ray shares actionable steps to heal emotional wounds, break free from self-sabotage, and empower yourself in love. Plus, we talk about practical ways to rewire your beliefs about relationships so you can finally attract the love and connection you deserve.
Whether you’re struggling with trust or trauma or simply want a better understanding of relationship dynamics, this episode is for you. Dr. Ray also shares exercises from his book All It Takes Is One and a free masterclass designed to help you transform your love life.
Key Questions Discussed:
How does the amygdala affect trust and safety in relationships, especially in terms of libido and intimacy?
What role does trauma, both large and small, play in self-sabotage and relationship dynamics?
What are the signs that someone is self-sabotaging in relationships, and how can they identify these patterns?
How can people break out of negative patterns, heal from trauma, and improve their relationships?
How can one differentiate between legitimate relationship concerns and self-sabotage?
About the Guest:
Dr. Ray Doktor, a renowned life and relationship coach and bestselling author, has empowered over 6,000 clients since 1995 to break through limiting beliefs and overcome life's challenges, significantly enhancing their confidence, self-trust, and happiness. Holding a doctorate in clinical psychology, a master's in counseling psychology, and a bachelor's in human behavior, Dr. Ray combines his extensive expertise with advanced techniques like hypnotherapy, EMDR, NLP, and ancient practices such as qigong and meditation to offer a holistic approach to mental well-being.??A sought-after speaker, Dr. Ray has shared stages with luminaries like Marianne Williamson, Bruce Lipton, John Gray, and Eckhart Tolle. His influential voice has reached audiences worldwide through appearances on E!, HBO, KCAL 9 Los Angeles, LA Talk Radio, and Talk America Radio. His insights have been featured in Psychology Today, Men’s Health, and the Los Angeles Times.
Learn more about Dr. Ray Doktor:
💖https://raydoktor.com.
💖https://www.allittakesisonebook.com/
💖https://www.instagram.com/drraydoktorcoaching
💖https://www.facebook.com/raydoktor
💖https://www.youtube.com/raydoktor
💖https://www.tiktok.com/@raydoktor
Our advocacy is centered around providing a supportive space for women to reclaim sexual vitality and joy for good. Help us achieve this by subscribing to our podcast and sharing us with your friends and family.
💖 Join our Next Libido Masterclass (mylibidodoc.com/)
💖 Access Lab Testing: https://platinumself.circle.so/c/community
More Libido Lounge
✨ Website | mylibidodoc.com/podcasts/
✨ YouTube | youtube.com/@mylibidodoc
✨ Instagram |instagram.com/mylibidodoc/
✨ Health Store | https://store.mylibidodoc.com/
(0:00) Introduction to Dr. Ray Doktor
(0:34) Trust, Safety, and Libido in Relationships
(3:47) Hypervigilance, Trauma, and Intimacy
(6:38) Breaking Bad Relationship Patterns and Self-Sabotage
(11:50) Self-Awareness and Empowerment in Relationships
(15:18) Real-Life Examples and Exercises for Relationship Healing
(20:51) Action Steps and Coaching for Relationship Readiness
(23:09) Attracting the Right Partner and Dr. Ray Doktor's Resources
(26:16) Addressing Self-Sabotage and Final Steps
(28:09) End-of-Year Deep Dive Promo
(28:40) Closing Remarks and Contact Info
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