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In this episode, Kate and Eric tackle a listener's question about managing conflict styles in a marriage.
"I tend to shut down during conflict—I need time to think things through before I can respond. But my wife wants to talk things out right away and gets frustrated when I withdraw. We both end up feeling unheard and frustrated. How do we find a way to resolve conflict that works for both of us?"
Topics:
➡️ Different communication styles: Internal processors vs. immediate responders.
➡️ Resolution strategies: Writing thoughts post-conflict and scheduling discussion times.
➡️ Personal responsibility: Acknowledging one's impact on communication breakdowns.
➡️ Constructive engagement: Using "I statements," taking breaks, and reaffirming understanding.
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➡️ Download the FREE Reignite Your Marriage Blueprint:
https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/go
➡️For Couples: Complete your Relationship Assessment
https://form.jotform.com/ericmacdougall85/EMcouples
By Kate and Eric MacDougall4.9
2424 ratings
In this episode, Kate and Eric tackle a listener's question about managing conflict styles in a marriage.
"I tend to shut down during conflict—I need time to think things through before I can respond. But my wife wants to talk things out right away and gets frustrated when I withdraw. We both end up feeling unheard and frustrated. How do we find a way to resolve conflict that works for both of us?"
Topics:
➡️ Different communication styles: Internal processors vs. immediate responders.
➡️ Resolution strategies: Writing thoughts post-conflict and scheduling discussion times.
➡️ Personal responsibility: Acknowledging one's impact on communication breakdowns.
➡️ Constructive engagement: Using "I statements," taking breaks, and reaffirming understanding.
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➡️ Download the FREE Reignite Your Marriage Blueprint:
https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/go
➡️For Couples: Complete your Relationship Assessment
https://form.jotform.com/ericmacdougall85/EMcouples

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