
Sign up to save your podcasts
Or


In this episode, Kate and Eric tackle a listener's question about managing conflict styles in a marriage.
"I tend to shut down during conflict—I need time to think things through before I can respond. But my wife wants to talk things out right away and gets frustrated when I withdraw. We both end up feeling unheard and frustrated. How do we find a way to resolve conflict that works for both of us?"
Topics:
➡️ Different communication styles: Internal processors vs. immediate responders.
➡️ Resolution strategies: Writing thoughts post-conflict and scheduling discussion times.
➡️ Personal responsibility: Acknowledging one's impact on communication breakdowns.
➡️ Constructive engagement: Using "I statements," taking breaks, and reaffirming understanding.
--------------------------------------------------------------------
➡️ Download the FREE Reignite Your Marriage Blueprint:
https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/go
➡️For Couples: Complete your Relationship Assessment
https://form.jotform.com/ericmacdougall85/EMcouples
By Kate and Eric MacDougall4.9
2424 ratings
In this episode, Kate and Eric tackle a listener's question about managing conflict styles in a marriage.
"I tend to shut down during conflict—I need time to think things through before I can respond. But my wife wants to talk things out right away and gets frustrated when I withdraw. We both end up feeling unheard and frustrated. How do we find a way to resolve conflict that works for both of us?"
Topics:
➡️ Different communication styles: Internal processors vs. immediate responders.
➡️ Resolution strategies: Writing thoughts post-conflict and scheduling discussion times.
➡️ Personal responsibility: Acknowledging one's impact on communication breakdowns.
➡️ Constructive engagement: Using "I statements," taking breaks, and reaffirming understanding.
--------------------------------------------------------------------
➡️ Download the FREE Reignite Your Marriage Blueprint:
https://www.evolvedmarriage.com/go
➡️For Couples: Complete your Relationship Assessment
https://form.jotform.com/ericmacdougall85/EMcouples

5,003 Listeners

1,881 Listeners

1,753 Listeners

21,144 Listeners

801 Listeners

137 Listeners

175 Listeners

1,149 Listeners

199 Listeners

170 Listeners

341 Listeners

168 Listeners

2,508 Listeners

26 Listeners

8,483 Listeners