How to Have Threesomes

To celebrate the podcast's new sponsor, Uberlube, Key, Lily and Bekah tell a slippery story. They give ideas on the ultimate way for a couple to test boundaries without letting jealousy and emotions get in the way.

Find Bekah England on Instagram @BekahEngland

How to Have Threesomes Video Course is Available now. 
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Arrange a video coaching call with Key and Lily
howtohavethreesomes.teachable.com/p/coachi…and-lily

The How to Have Threesomes retreat is taking sign ups now!
docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQL…wform?usp=sharing

How to Have Threesomes the book is available across multiple platforms
With sexcapades and crazy stories to help you understand how and why a couple might choose a monogamish relationship. www.amazon.com/dp/B0BRG5KSWQ

Learn more in our book How to Have Threesomes: Companion Guide on Amazon:
www.amazon.com/dp/B0BRGB11PH

Find us on Instagram
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A more conservative talk about relationships, Overcoming challenges and how and why we entered into a monogamish relationship.

With Rikki, Julia and Lua.

If you want to see more from Lua you can follow her on instagram at @Spark.of.Lua

Or check out her podcast SparkofLua

How to Have Threesomes the book is available now!

With sexcapades and crazy stories to help you understand how and why a couple might choose a monogamish relationship. www.amazon.com/dp/B084Q87YBY

Or listen now to the How to Have Threesomes audio book on Audible

https://www.audible.com.au/pd/How-to-Have-Threesomes-Audiobook/B09F51LHCP?qid=1636677835&sr=1-3&ref=a_search_c3_lProduct_1_3&pf_rd_p=771c6463-05d7-4981-9b47-920dc34a70f1&pf_rd_r=R9FGWHCW85BG9KEGMBX8

Learn more in our book How to Have Threesomes: Companion Guide on Amazon:

www.amazon.com/dp/B07WMSB78W/ref…p_U_O955Db083HVPA

Or listen to the HTHT Compainon Guide audio book on Audible

https://www.audible.com.au/pd/How-to-Have-Threesomes-Audiobook/B08BT2NCL5?qid=1636677835&sr=1-1&ref=a_search_c3_lProduct_1_1&pf_rd_p=771c6463-05d7-4981-9b47-920dc34a70f1&pf_rd_r=R9FGWHCW85BG9KEGMBX8

Check out the best lube we've ever used, from our sponsor Uberlube - www.uberlube.com/ Stay tuned for giveaways and use the code: THREESOME for a discount!

Find us on Instagram

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Rikki www.instagram.com/rikkicarman/

Triad Relationships Seeking Arrangement - with Anrey

Anrey from the Philippines talks on how to have threesomes about Triad relationships and meeting sexual partners on seeking arrangement. Aka sugar babies.

Anrey identifies as a lesbian except for the exception of one man.

Seeking arrangement - the good, bad and the ugly, Anrey was a frequent user and had amazing times but as a first time user she was raped. She opens up about how she was tricked, taken advantage of and talks about how to avoid bad situations.

For all the guys out there trying to make their first threesome happen, Anrey drops bombs 💣 of knowledge that help you to understand how to make a girl feel calm and comfortable around you.

Some tips: Ask her about her. Take Time to get to know her. Take your time, don't rush things. Start

Anrey is our first guest to not only have casual threesomes but to be romantically tied and in a triad relationship.

She talks power dynamics, falling in love, sneaky sex, honesty and an eventual breakup.

If you think threesomes can be tricky wait till you hear what it’s like managing a relationship with two women

If you want to see some sexy photos of Anrey you can check out her onlyfans @recklessreyes

You can follow her on instagram at @anreyxxvi

How to Have Threesomes the book is available now!

With sexcapades and crazy stories to help you understand how and why a couple might choose a monogamish relationship. www.amazon.com/dp/B084Q87YBY

Or listen now to the How to Have Threesomes audio book on Audible

https://www.audible.com.au/pd/How-to-Have-Threesomes-Audiobook/B09F51LHCP?qid=1636677835&sr=1-3&ref=a_search_c3_lProduct_1_3&pf_rd_p=771c6463-05d7-4981-9b47-920dc34a70f1&pf_rd_r=R9FGWHCW85BG9KEGMBX8

Learn more in our book How to Have Threesomes: Companion Guide on Amazon:

www.amazon.com/dp/B07WMSB78W/ref…p_U_O955Db083HVPA

Or listen to the HTHT Compainon Guide audio book on Audible

https://www.audible.com.au/pd/How-to-Have-Threesomes-Audiobook/B08BT2NCL5?qid=1636677835&sr=1-1&ref=a_search_c3_lProduct_1_1&pf_rd_p=771c6463-05d7-4981-9b47-920dc34a70f1&pf_rd_r=R9FGWHCW85BG9KEGMBX8

Check out the best lube we've ever used, from our sponsor Uberlube - www.uberlube.com/ Stay tuned for giveaways and use the code: THREESOME for a discount!

Find us on Instagram

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Rikki www.instagram.com/rikkicarman/

An overview of the book: Sex at Dawn

It seems like in todays culture that women trade sex for protection / shelter and status and from the males

Sex at Dawn challenges this standard narrative and says that is not a biological truth but a cultural idea.

The male looks for signs of youth, fertility, health, absence of previous sexual experience, and likelihood of future sexual fidelity. In other words, his assessment is skewed toward finding a fertile, healthy young mate with many childbearing years ahead and no current children to drain his resources. She looks for signs of wealth (or at least prospects of future wealth), social status, physical health, and likelihood that he will stick around to protect and provide for their children. Her guy must be willing and able to provide materially for her (especially during pregnancy and breastfeeding) and their children (known as male parental investment)."

Animals —-

We humans are the most sexual beings on earth

In terms of duration, human beings spend more of our lifetime having sex than any other animal

Most mammals only have sex when the female is ovulating. Humans are rare in that we have sex any time

After chimps and bonobos gorillas are our next closest primate relatives they have sex roughly 12 - 15 times per birth / conception

Humans have sex roughly 800 - 1000 times per birth

Chimps bonobos humans and dolphins are the only animals to have sex for pleasure. All highly social and intelligent where community is integral to their survival

300 species of primates none are monogamous

Hunter gatherer Tribes ——

That were discovered without modern societal norms needed a sense of community to survive and often sharing partners ensured that children would have multiple potential fathers so if one died the kid would have other fathers to step up and take care of the kid.

Distributes the risk

In amazon tribes a fetus is an accumulation of sperm from many men, so he will get the strength of one man, the kindness of another, the mind of another.

They believe if the woman stops having sex the fetus would not continue to grow

The fathers feel thankful that other men contributed to the conception of their child

The birth of swingers - the fighter pilots of WWII

Sexual novelty and having multiple sexual partners increases testosterone.

Some men have described the urge to cheat on their partner as almost feeling like life and death.

Men with lowered testosterone are more then 4x as likely to suffer from clinical depression, fatal heart attacks and death by and cancer when compared with men their same age with higher levels of testosterone.

Also more likely to develop alzheimer's and other forms of dementia. And have a far greater risk of Dying of any cause ranging from 88% to 250% depending on the study.

Conclusion: Don't take sex so seriously

1/2 million families in the us were polyamorous at the time the book was written

So what should we do?

No answers but they explain that its natural to feel desire. Just because you and your partner are attracted to other people doesn’t mean there is something wrong with you your relationship or your partner.

Allow that your going to be tempted. Its natural, but now armed with that knowledge you have the ability to talk and with your partner honestly and figure out ways to make your relationship work

How to Have Threesomes Video Course is Available now.

http://howtohavethreesomes.teachable.com/p/how-to-have-threesomes

Arrange a video coaching call with Key and Lily

http://howtohavethreesomes.teachable.com/p/coaching-with-key-and-lily

The How to Have Threesomes retreat is taking sign ups now!

https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe75efA6m-fVgD57meLcZi_OSWxIuTgBon3yYaro5LIJF2eAw/viewform?usp=sharing

How to Have Threesomes the book is available across multiple platforms.

With sexcapades and crazy stories to help you understand how and why a couple might choose a monogamish relationship. https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0BRG5KSWQ

Questions for the Unicorn Queen - Bekah 👑 🦄

Most people you’ve had sex with in one night? Did you like it?

When was your last threesome?

When was the last time you were rejected? How did you handle it?

Do you tell your family about being a unicorn?

Craziest place you’ve had sex (ps.. this is the most insane place we’ve heard to date.)

Have you filmed yourself having sex? How about in a threesome?

Favorite dating apps?

Favorite place to have sex?

Favorite sex position?

Longest sexual encounter?

Have you ever had someone walk in on you?

What is your ideal amount of sex?threesomes?

Any STD STI scares?

Where is the sexiest place (location) you’ve been to in the world?

Do you have any kinks?

Your dream threesome who would it include?

Strap on experience? Does it feel different than a dick?

What do you desire in a partner?

Would you be ok with a partner who wanted to only have threesomes with girls?

Find Bekah England on Instagram @BekahEngland

How to Have Threesomes Video Course is Available now.

howtohavethreesomes.teachable.com/p/how-to…reesomes

Arrange a video coaching call with Key and Lily

howtohavethreesomes.teachable.com/p/coachi…and-lily

The How to Have Threesomes retreat is taking sign ups now!

docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQL…wform?usp=sharing

How to Have Threesomes the book is available across multiple platforms

With sexcapades and crazy stories to help you understand how and why a couple might choose a monogamish relationship. www.amazon.com/dp/B0BRG5KSWQ

Learn more in our book How to Have Threesomes: Companion Guide on Amazon:

www.amazon.com/dp/B0BRGB11PH

Find us on Instagram

How to Have Threesomes www.instagram.com/howtohavethreesomes/

Key and Lily talk about their first threesome and how they made it happen. Some other show notes.

-Having a threesome is as common as owning a cat. 1 in 5 Americans have one.

-Making the first move: Make it obvious. Don’t leave it up to interpretation.

-Don’t chase girls, let them come to you.

-Don’t do it because you feel obliged to.

-Have difficult conversations with food.

-Don’t lose your best friend, just have the hard talks. Be good at receiving hard information.

How to Have Threesomes Video Course is Available now.

howtohavethreesomes.teachable.com/p/how-to…reesomes

Arrange a video coaching call with Key and Lily

howtohavethreesomes.teachable.com/p/coachi…and-lily

The How to Have Threesomes retreat is taking sign ups now!

docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQL…wform?usp=sharing

How to Have Threesomes the book is available across multiple platforms

With sexcapades and crazy stories to help you understand how and why a couple might choose a monogamish relationship. www.amazon.com/dp/B0BRG5KSWQ

Learn more in our book How to Have Threesomes: Companion Guide on Amazon:

www.amazon.com/dp/B0BRGB11PH

Find us on Instagram

How to Have Threesomes www.instagram.com/howtohavethreesomes/

Instagram vs reality, social media blocking, deleting & unfriending, cancel culture, pretending like you don’t care online to arouse interest, sending your partner to a professional sex worker, cat fishing and false advertising online.

Kerry, Julia and Rikki discuss,

How to Have Threesomes the book is available now!

With sexcapades and crazy stories to help you understand how and why a couple might choose a monogamish relationship. www.amazon.com/dp/B084Q87YBY

Or listen now to the How to Have Threesomes audio book on Audible

https://www.audible.com.au/pd/How-to-Have-Threesomes-Audiobook/B09F51LHCP?qid=1636677835&sr=1-3&ref=a_search_c3_lProduct_1_3&pf_rd_p=771c6463-05d7-4981-9b47-920dc34a70f1&pf_rd_r=R9FGWHCW85BG9KEGMBX8

Learn more in our book How to Have Threesomes: Companion Guide on Amazon:

www.amazon.com/dp/B07WMSB78W/ref…p_U_O955Db083HVPA

Or listen to the HTHT Compainon Guide audio book on Audible

https://www.audible.com.au/pd/How-to-Have-Threesomes-Audiobook/B08BT2NCL5?qid=1636677835&sr=1-1&ref=a_search_c3_lProduct_1_1&pf_rd_p=771c6463-05d7-4981-9b47-920dc34a70f1&pf_rd_r=R9FGWHCW85BG9KEGMBX8

Check out the best lube we've ever used, from our sponsor Uberlube - www.uberlube.com/ Stay tuned for giveaways and use the code: THREESOME for a discount!

Find us on Instagram

How to Have Threesomes www.instagram.com/howtohavethreesomes/

Rikki www.instagram.com/rikkicarman/

Personality types and how they effect relationships. Starting with who is the gas or the breaks in a relationship?

Being messy or clean, Kerry gives commentary on Rikki and Julia’s relationship. The idea that two of the same personality types should not be together. Taking care of past trauma before entering into a new relationship. Does having similar goals with your partner make personality differences more manageable. Finding the perfect person, but they may come with vices. The more you want from a relationship the more you have to be willing to give.

Rikki, Julia and Kerry.

How to Have Threesomes the book is available now!

With sexcapades and crazy stories to help you understand how and why a couple might choose a monogamish relationship. www.amazon.com/dp/B084Q87YBY

Or listen now to the How to Have Threesomes audio book on Audible

https://www.audible.com.au/pd/How-to-Have-Threesomes-Audiobook/B09F51LHCP?qid=1636677835&sr=1-3&ref=a_search_c3_lProduct_1_3&pf_rd_p=771c6463-05d7-4981-9b47-920dc34a70f1&pf_rd_r=R9FGWHCW85BG9KEGMBX8

Learn more in our book How to Have Threesomes: Companion Guide on Amazon:

www.amazon.com/dp/B07WMSB78W/ref…p_U_O955Db083HVPA

Or listen to the HTHT Compainon Guide audio book on Audible

https://www.audible.com.au/pd/How-to-Have-Threesomes-Audiobook/B08BT2NCL5?qid=1636677835&sr=1-1&ref=a_search_c3_lProduct_1_1&pf_rd_p=771c6463-05d7-4981-9b47-920dc34a70f1&pf_rd_r=R9FGWHCW85BG9KEGMBX8

Check out the best lube we've ever used, from our sponsor Uberlube - www.uberlube.com/ Stay tuned for giveaways and use the code: THREESOME for a discount!

Find us on Instagram

How to Have Threesomes www.instagram.com/howtohavethreesomes/

Rikki www.instagram.com/rikkicarman/

We teach you the do's and don'ts of taking photos of naked girls. This is a mid week episode that may not be applicable to our wider audience. Many people question how we end up with so many beautiful naked girls around us and in this episode we tell you how. (Trust is key)

How to Have Threesomes Video Course is Available now.

howtohavethreesomes.teachable.com/p/how-to…reesomes

Arrange a video coaching call with Key and Lily

howtohavethreesomes.teachable.com/p/coachi…and-lily

The How to Have Threesomes retreat is taking sign ups now!

docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQL…wform?usp=sharing

How to Have Threesomes the book is available across multiple platforms

With sexcapades and crazy stories to help you understand how and why a couple might choose a monogamish relationship. www.amazon.com/dp/B0BRG5KSWQ

Learn more in our book How to Have Threesomes: Companion Guide on Amazon:

www.amazon.com/dp/B0BRGB11PH

Find us on Instagram

How to Have Threesomes www.instagram.com/howtohavethreesomes/

How we set unrealistic standards for ourselves and for others. How passive income helped us to create a free spirited lifestyle. We explore the concept that the less partners you've had, the more sexually satisfied you will be with your current partner.

Fun facts from the book Everybody Lies: Big Data, New Data, and What the Internet Can Tell Us About Who We Really Are - by Seth Stephens-Davidowitz - https://www.amazon.com/Everybody-Lies-Internet-About-Really/dp/0062390856

Remember to comment the 🌸emoji on instagram on the resort you think we made this episode.

How to Have Threesomes Video Course is Available now.

http://howtohavethreesomes.teachable.com/p/how-to-have-threesomes

Arrange a video coaching call with Key and Lily

http://howtohavethreesomes.teachable.com/p/coaching-with-key-and-lily

The How to Have Threesomes retreat is taking sign ups now!

https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe75efA6m-fVgD57meLcZi_OSWxIuTgBon3yYaro5LIJF2eAw/viewform?usp=sharing

How to Have Threesomes the book is available across multiple platforms

With sexcapades and crazy stories to help you understand how and why a couple might choose a monogamish relationship. https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0BRG5KSWQ

Learn more in our book How to Have Threesomes: Companion Guide on Amazon:

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0BRGB11PH

Find us on Instagram

How to Have Threesomes www.instagram.com/howtohavethreesomes/