How to Have Threesomes

Rikki Carman and Julia Wild have an amazing episode with the incredibly well-spoken Danny Carlson.

We talk about the male culture and how hooking up with girls can be a way of seeking validation, what happens when people in a relationship grow in different directions, how dating is like marketing, how to attract the right type of partners into your life, honing down on exactly the girl you want and then becoming attractive to her, raising your game to match the people you want to attract, putting out the right intentions - how to stay out of the friend zone, creating exciting first dates, using first dates as a test to see how well she’ll fit into your lifestyle, what is a relationship closing ceremony, dating based on who someone is vs who they could become, things to look for in a potential partner, how threesomes are like marathons to Danny, ideas about bringing in another guy.

You can find Danny online at:

@iamdannycarlson - instagram

Dannycarlson.co - website

Danny’s book recommendations:

The Way of the Superior Man - David Deida

Win Bigly - Scott Adams

How to Have Threesomes the book is available now!

With sexcapades and crazy stories to help you understand how and why a couple might choose a monogamish relationship. www.amazon.com/dp/B084Q87YBY

Or listen now to the How to Have Threesomes audio book on Audible

https://www.audible.com.au/pd/How-to-Have-Threesomes-Audiobook/B09F51LHCP?qid=1636677835&sr=1-3&ref=a_search_c3_lProduct_1_3&pf_rd_p=771c6463-05d7-4981-9b47-920dc34a70f1&pf_rd_r=R9FGWHCW85BG9KEGMBX8

Learn more in our book How to Have Threesomes: Companion Guide on Amazon:

www.amazon.com/dp/B07WMSB78W/ref…p_U_O955Db083HVPA

Or listen to the HTHT Compainon Guide audio book on Audible

https://www.audible.com.au/pd/How-to-Have-Threesomes-Audiobook/B08BT2NCL5?qid=1636677835&sr=1-1&ref=a_search_c3_lProduct_1_1&pf_rd_p=771c6463-05d7-4981-9b47-920dc34a70f1&pf_rd_r=R9FGWHCW85BG9KEGMBX8

Check out the best lube we've ever used, from our sponsor Uberlube - www.uberlube.com/ Stay tuned for giveaways and use the code: THREESOME for a discount!

Find us on Instagram

How to Have Threesomes www.instagram.com/howtohavethreesomes/

Rikki www.instagram.com/rikkicarman/

Key and Lily dive into the most asked listener question: How to ask a girl to have a threesome and how to tell if she's into you.

How to Have Threesomes Video Course is Available now.

howtohavethreesomes.teachable.com/p/how-to…reesomes

Arrange a video coaching call with Key and Lily

howtohavethreesomes.teachable.com/p/coachi…and-lily

The How to Have Threesomes retreat is taking sign ups now!

docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQL…wform?usp=sharing

How to Have Threesomes the book is available across multiple platforms

With sexcapades and crazy stories to help you understand how and why a couple might choose a monogamish relationship. www.amazon.com/dp/B0BRG5KSWQ

Learn more in our book How to Have Threesomes: Companion Guide on Amazon:

www.amazon.com/dp/B0BRGB11PH

Find us on Instagram

How to Have Threesomes www.instagram.com/howtohavethreesomes/

Key and Lily answer questions like: Do we ever meet up with other couples just to chill? Do we have a higher than normal sex drive? What happens if a boundary is overstepped? Going public with our sexuality and how has that changed things? How often do we have threesomes? Do we have a type? Has Lily ever surprised Key?

How to Have Threesomes Video Course is Available now. 
howtohavethreesomes.teachable.com/p/how-to…reesomes

Arrange a video coaching call with Key and Lily
howtohavethreesomes.teachable.com/p/coachi…and-lily

The How to Have Threesomes retreat is taking sign ups now!
docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQL…wform?usp=sharing

How to Have Threesomes the book is available across multiple platforms
With sexcapades and crazy stories to help you understand how and why a couple might choose a monogamish relationship. www.amazon.com/dp/B0BRG5KSWQ

Learn more in our book How to Have Threesomes: Companion Guide on Amazon:
www.amazon.com/dp/B0BRGB11PH

Find us on Instagram
How to Have Threesomes www.instagram.com/howtohavethreesomes/

On a beach in Bali, we met this awesome couple. We talk with Zach and Gayla about dating a woman without her husband's knowledge, making porn, sex shows in strip clubs, midget strippers, orgies on LSD, travel, threesomes FFM and an attempt at MMF, squirting, sex toys, double penetration with the zoro, a fantasy of double penetration with a ladyboy and more...

Check out Zach and Gayla on instagram and pornhub

@duoleos

https://www.instagram.com/duoleos/

Zach’s book recommendation:

She Comes First by Ian Kerner

How to Have Threesomes the book is available now!

With sexcapades and crazy stories to help you understand how and why a couple might choose a monogamish relationship. www.amazon.com/dp/B084Q87YBY

Or listen now to the How to Have Threesomes audio book on Audible

https://www.audible.com.au/pd/How-to-Have-Threesomes-Audiobook/B09F51LHCP?qid=1636677835&sr=1-3&ref=a_search_c3_lProduct_1_3&pf_rd_p=771c6463-05d7-4981-9b47-920dc34a70f1&pf_rd_r=R9FGWHCW85BG9KEGMBX8

Learn more in our book How to Have Threesomes: Companion Guide on Amazon:

www.amazon.com/dp/B07WMSB78W/ref…p_U_O955Db083HVPA

Or listen to the HTHT Compainon Guide audio book on Audible

https://www.audible.com.au/pd/How-to-Have-Threesomes-Audiobook/B08BT2NCL5?qid=1636677835&sr=1-1&ref=a_search_c3_lProduct_1_1&pf_rd_p=771c6463-05d7-4981-9b47-920dc34a70f1&pf_rd_r=R9FGWHCW85BG9KEGMBX8

Check out the best lube we've ever used, from our sponsor Uberlube - www.uberlube.com/ Stay tuned for giveaways and use the code: THREESOME for a discount!

Find us on Instagram

How to Have Threesomes www.instagram.com/howtohavethreesomes/

Rikki www.instagram.com/rikkicarman/

Stories from a Unicorn’s perspective 🦄(the second girl)with Eva.

Our long time friend Eva, is one of the most compassionate people we know, she has some crazy stories and a beautiful outlook on life.

You can find her on Instagram @Evasumpter

We talk all about being the “unicorn”, the other girl in a threesome, dating an engaged couple with a child, accusations of being a homewrecker, Eva's tips on how to stand out as a couple, being brave around friends about your sexuality and how it can open new levels of depth, a glimpse inside a conscious sex workshop, taking the time for self-pleasure, what is a yoni egg, what does yoni mean, working out pressure spots and numbness with crystal wands, menstrual cycles & the magic of period blood.

Eva's recommended books:

Pussy: A Reclamation - by Regina Thomashauer

Wild Power: Discover the Magic of Your Menstrual Cycle and Awaken the Feminine Path to Power - by Alexandra Pope and Sjanie Hugo Wurlitzer

Eva's favorite sex music:

Touch - holy other

First fuck - 6lack

Haunted - stwo (feat. Sevdaliza)

Unfold - Alina Baraz Galimatias

Yours - SG Lewis

How to Have Threesomes Video Course is Available now.

http://howtohavethreesomes.teachable.com/p/how-to-have-threesomes

Arrange a video coaching call with Key and Lily

http://howtohavethreesomes.teachable.com/p/coaching-with-key-and-lily

The How to Have Threesomes retreat is taking sign ups now!

https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe75efA6m-fVgD57meLcZi_OSWxIuTgBon3yYaro5LIJF2eAw/viewform?usp=sharing

How to Have Threesomes the book is available across multiple platforms

With sexcapades and crazy stories to help you understand how and why a couple might choose a monogamish relationship. https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0BRG5KSWQ

Learn more in our book How to Have Threesomes: Companion Guide on Amazon:

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0BRGB11PH

Find us on Instagram

How to Have Threesomes www.instagram.com/howtohavethreesomes/

Stories from a Unicorn’s perspective 🦄(the second girl)with Eva Sumpter.

Our long time friend Eva, is one of the most compassionate people we know, she has some crazy stories and a beautiful outlook on life.

You can find her on Instagram @Evasumpter

We talk all about being the “unicorn”, the other girl in a threesome, dating an engaged couple with a child, accusations of being a homewrecker, Eva's tips on how to stand out as a couple, being brave around friends about your sexuality and how it can open new levels of depth, a glimpse inside a conscious sex workshop, taking the time for self-pleasure, what is a yoni egg, what does yoni mean, working out pressure spots and numbness with crystal wands, menstrual cycles & the magic of period blood.

Eva's recommended books:

Pussy: A Reclamation - by Regina Thomashauer

Wild Power: Discover the Magic of Your Menstrual Cycle and Awaken the Feminine Path to Power - by Alexandra Pope and Sjanie Hugo Wurlitzer

Eva's favorite sex music:

Touch - holy other

First fuck - 6lack

Haunted - stwo (feat. Sevdaliza)

Unfold - Alina Baraz Galimatias

Yours - SG Lewis

How to Have Threesomes the book is available now!

With sexcapades and crazy stories to help you understand how and why a couple might choose a monogamish relationship. www.amazon.com/dp/B084Q87YBY

Or listen now to the How to Have Threesomes audio book on Audible

https://www.audible.com.au/pd/How-to-Have-Threesomes-Audiobook/B09F51LHCP?qid=1636677835&sr=1-3&ref=a_search_c3_lProduct_1_3&pf_rd_p=771c6463-05d7-4981-9b47-920dc34a70f1&pf_rd_r=R9FGWHCW85BG9KEGMBX8

Learn more in our book How to Have Threesomes: Companion Guide on Amazon:

www.amazon.com/dp/B07WMSB78W/ref…p_U_O955Db083HVPA

Or listen to the HTHT Compainon Guide audio book on Audible

https://www.audible.com.au/pd/How-to-Have-Threesomes-Audiobook/B08BT2NCL5?qid=1636677835&sr=1-1&ref=a_search_c3_lProduct_1_1&pf_rd_p=771c6463-05d7-4981-9b47-920dc34a70f1&pf_rd_r=R9FGWHCW85BG9KEGMBX8

Check out the best lube we've ever used, from our sponsor Uberlube - www.uberlube.com/ Stay tuned for giveaways and use the code: THREESOME for a discount!

Find us on Instagram

How to Have Threesomes www.instagram.com/howtohavethreesomes/

Rikki www.instagram.com/rikkicarman/

On this podcast, Key, Lily, and guest, Philip, explore conscious sexuality, the connection between yoga and sexuality, what is tantra, finding sexuality separately from your partner, facing fears, dating a married woman, conscious sex parties and how they create a framework for consent and respect, our capacity as humans to love more than one person at a time, powerful women, holding boundaries, being both a giver and a receiver, opening your heart to a lover, the practice of masturbating and thinking about yourself, a MMF threesome with a best friend, exploring fears and transforming them, a blindfolded sex party, a self-pleasuring party, what lies beyond your comfort zone, is Bali a sexual place and more.

Find Philip on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/philipflowyoga/

Phillip’s recommended books:

The Way of the Superior Man - David Deida

Intimate Communion - Gerald M Phillips

Enlightened Sex - David Deida

The Sexual Practices of Quodoushka: Teachings from the Nagual Tradition - Amara Charles

What Women Want in a Man: How to Become the Confident Man That Women Respect, Desire Sexually and Want to Obey…in Every Way - Bruce Bryans

How to Have Threesomes Video Course is Available now.

http://howtohavethreesomes.teachable.com/p/how-to-have-threesomes

Arrange a video coaching call with Key and Lily

http://howtohavethreesomes.teachable.com/p/coaching-with-key-and-lily

The How to Have Threesomes retreat is taking sign ups now!

https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe75efA6m-fVgD57meLcZi_OSWxIuTgBon3yYaro5LIJF2eAw/viewform?usp=sharing

How to Have Threesomes the book is available across multiple platforms

With sexcapades and crazy stories to help you understand how and why a couple might choose a monogamish relationship. https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0BRG5KSWQ

Learn more in our book How to Have Threesomes: Companion Guide on Amazon:

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0BRGB11PH

Find us on Instagram

How to Have Threesomes www.instagram.com/howtohavethreesomes/

This was by far the most difficult podcast we have ever had to make. 
These are all the worst questions, the ones we hoped never to be asked, all compiled into one episode.

Questions we answer:

A lot of people are saying you’re egotistical/ wrote this book to show off, what do you say to that? 


How many women have you slept with?

Do you think everyone should introduce a third party into the bedroom?

Is your sex life bad when it’s just the two of you?

Julia do you think Rikki will cheat on you again?

Isn’t this just supporting the notion of a patriarchal society, men holding the power over women?


Will your view on this change if and when you have children?

How does your family feel after hearing about your book?

What happens if the other chick gets pregnant and wants to have the kid?

What was the motive behind the book? 

What about the people involved - have they all consented to be written about? 

What do your friends think? 

How will this affect future job prospects? 

Will releasing this book hurt both of your reputations?

What happens if you guys break up - any consequences with that or regrets? 

Who do you hope to sell the books to? 

Who is your audience/who can learn from this?

Would you recommend this book to teenagers? 

Is there anything that would make you stop wanting to have threesomes? 

If you ever have children, would your history of having threesomes be something you'd want them to know?

Would you stay with Rikki if he had a child with another girl?

If you two broke up would you pursue threesomes in a new relationship?

If you got negative feedback from the book, would it put strain on your relationship?


Do you currently have any lovers?

Is part of the reason you’re releasing the book so that you can have more love interests in your life?


Do you always find your love interests through Tinder?


Have you ever gone back to the girl's place or do you always go back to yours?


Have you ever felt unsafe in a threesome?


Do you have any boundaries with a threesome girl?


Do you always have penetrative sex with a threesome girl?


Julia, do you ever feel left out during a threesome?


Are you advocating threesomes?

How to Have Threesomes the book is available now! https://www.amazon.com/dp/B084Q87YBY

We have been getting requests to see our tinder... which we will release on Instagram when we get to 20 ratings or reviews on Apple podcasts!

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/how-to-have-threesomes/id1483682406

If you have any questions for us or for guests or topics you are interested in, please write to us.

The How to Have Threesomes: Companion Guide is also available on Amazon: www.amazon.com/dp/B07WMSB78W/ref…p_U_O955Db083HVPA

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Find us on Instagram

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Rikki www.instagram.com/rikkicarman/

We have an amazing podcast this week with our super sexy guest, Minx! She, talks about non-monogamy, moresomes, an experience at a sex auction, stripping, drugs and sex, tips for girls trying to flirt with other girls and tips for couples flirting with a girls.

You can find Minx on Instagram @Aryiellukashuk

How to Have Threesomes Video Course is Available now.

http://howtohavethreesomes.teachable.com/p/how-to-have-threesomes

Arrange a video coaching call with Key and Lily

http://howtohavethreesomes.teachable.com/p/coaching-with-key-and-lily

The How to Have Threesomes retreat is taking sign ups now!

https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe75efA6m-fVgD57meLcZi_OSWxIuTgBon3yYaro5LIJF2eAw/viewform?usp=sharing

How to Have Threesomes the book is available across multiple platforms.

With sexcapades and crazy stories to help you understand how and why a couple might choose a monogamish relationship. https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0BRG5KSWQ

Learn more in our book How to Have Threesomes: Companion Guide on Amazon:

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0BRGB11PH

Find us on Instagram

How to Have Threesomes www.instagram.com/howtohavethreesomes/

We have an amazing podcast this week with our super sexy guest, Minx! Julia, Rikki, and guest, Minx, talk about non-monogamy, moresomes, an experience at a sex auction, stripping, drugs and sex, tips for girls trying to flirt with other girls and tips for couples flirting with a girl.

You can find Minx on Instagram @Aryiellukashuk

We have been getting requests to see our tinder... which we will release on Instagram when we get to 20 ratings or reviews on Apple podcasts!

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/how-to-have-threesomes/id1483682406

If you have any questions for us or for guests or topics you are interested in, please write to us.

How to Have Threesomes the book is available now!

With sexcapades and crazy stories to help you understand how and why a couple might choose a monogamish relationship. www.amazon.com/dp/B084Q87YBY

Or listen now to the How to Have Threesomes audio book on Audible

https://www.audible.com.au/pd/How-to-Have-Threesomes-Audiobook/B09F51LHCP?qid=1636677835&sr=1-3&ref=a_search_c3_lProduct_1_3&pf_rd_p=771c6463-05d7-4981-9b47-920dc34a70f1&pf_rd_r=R9FGWHCW85BG9KEGMBX8

Learn more in our book How to Have Threesomes: Companion Guide on Amazon:

www.amazon.com/dp/B07WMSB78W/ref…p_U_O955Db083HVPA

Or listen to the HTHT Compainon Guide audio book on Audible

https://www.audible.com.au/pd/How-to-Have-Threesomes-Audiobook/B08BT2NCL5?qid=1636677835&sr=1-1&ref=a_search_c3_lProduct_1_1&pf_rd_p=771c6463-05d7-4981-9b47-920dc34a70f1&pf_rd_r=R9FGWHCW85BG9KEGMBX8

Check out the best lube we've ever used, from our sponsor Uberlube - www.uberlube.com/ Stay tuned for giveaways and use the code: THREESOME for a discount!

Find us on Instagram

How to Have Threesomes www.instagram.com/howtohavethreesomes/

Rikki www.instagram.com/rikkicarman/