Episode 16: Hey loves—picture this: stormy clouds drifting past my office window, like the universe was whispering, “This one’s for the brave.” 🌧️✨ And yep, it is. We’re going deep and raw today—diving into a love so twisted it wears kindness like a costume.

We’re unpacking true love vs. manipulation that masquerades as love—and learning to recognize which one you're actually in.

Here’s what we’re touching on:

💔 Love isn’t about sacrificing your truth
True love doesn’t ask you to shrink or rewrite yourself. If you’re bending to fit someone else’s mold, that’s not love—it’s control in drag.

🔥 Trust. Respect. Authenticity.
Love shows up in whispers, not walls. It’s safe, steady, and soft. We’re breaking apart the Beloved Myth that “love means everything”—sometimes, it means none of what you need.

💬 Stories from the front lines
I’m bringing in real talk—from my clients and from my own journey—on the sharp-edged difference between empowerment and emotional pull.

🛑 Red flags aren’t romantic
Subtle authority plays. Enmeshment disguised as closeness. The gaslit whisper, “You’re the only one I love like this.”—we’re calling them out for what they are: control wrapped in a lover’s jacket.

✨ Wrapping it all with freedom
True love empowers each partner to walk their path—even if it splits. Manipulation says, “Don’t go.” Love says, “I trust you—even when we’re miles apart.”

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