Most of us have been there — stuck in a relationship that feels broken, wondering how much longer we should keep trying. But before we can answer that question honestly, we have to ask a harder one: are we trying to fix the relationship, or are we trying to fix the other person?

In this episode we explore what it really means to fix a relationship from the inside out. We break down why most relationship problems are actually awareness problems, how the dynamic between leader and follower plays out in every relationship, and why clinging to the idea that the other person needs to change is rooted in scarcity — not love.

We also explore the difference between a mango tree and an apple tree, and why standing under the wrong one expecting the wrong fruit is the source of most relationship suffering.

If you've ever felt like you're the only one trying, or wondered whether it's time to walk away, this episode will give you a new framework for seeing the whole picture.

Send us a text message. We'd love to hear from you!