The Ultimate Mindset Change Podcast

How to Let Someone Go (And Why It’s So Hard)


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Letting go isn't easy, especially when you care deeply, want to avoid conflict or hurt someone.

In this episode, we explore why it’s so hard to let someone go, whether that’s a relationship, friendship, or professional connection that no longer feels right. If you’ve ever stayed longer than you knew you should, struggled with people-pleasing, or avoided a difficult conversation in the hope things might change… this episode is for you.

I share a personal story from my past and the moment a simple but confronting insight completely changed how I view endings. We’ll look at how holding on can quietly create more suffering, how people-pleasing can become a form of self-protection, and why letting go — when done with honesty and compassion — can be one of the most respectful things you ever do.

You’ll also be guided through reflective coaching questions and practical next steps to help you approach endings with clarity, integrity, and kindness — without guilt, shame, or unnecessary drama.

This episode is for anyone navigating:

  • Letting go of a relationship or friendship

  • Fear of difficult conversations

  • People-pleasing and over-responsibility

  • Emotional honesty and personal growth

  • Creating healthier boundaries and aligned relationships

    If you’re ready to stop avoiding what you already know and start living with more truth and ease, this conversation will support you.

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    I'm Paul Sheppard, I am Coach who is on a mission to help people break free from overthinking and reconnect with a calmer, clearer and more confident way of being.

    Through simple insights, practical guidance and meditations, I will help you discover who you truly are and what you are capable of beyond the thinking mind.  

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