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How to Live Gratefully When Life Isn’t Going Your Way with Kristi Nelson


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In this episode, Kristi Nelson discusses how to live gratefully when life isn’t going your way. She explores how to learn to cultivate unconditional gratitude – appreciating life itself, even amidst difficulty, aging, or illness. Kristi shares insights from her cancer journey, explores the difference between circumstantial gratitude and deeper gratefulness, and offers practical exercises for embracing aging with self-compassion. Together, she and Eric discuss mindfulness, the impermanence of life, and how to find meaning and presence in each moment.

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Key Takeaways:

  • Concept of "gratitude without conditions" and its significance.
  • Difference between circumstantial gratitude and deeper, unconditional gratefulness.
  • Personal experiences with mortality and illness influencing perspectives on gratitude.
  • Importance of mindfulness and living in the present moment.
  • The role of impermanence in cultivating a meaningful life.
  • Cultural narratives around aging and the pressure to defy it.
  • Embracing the natural process of aging with grace and acceptance.
  • Practical exercises for self-acceptance and connection in the aging process.
  • Shifting perspective from obligation to opportunity in daily life.
  • The interplay of joy, grief, and the complexity of human emotions in the context of gratitude
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