Peace and Parenting: How to Parent without Punishments

How to Respond When Our Kids Are Defiant


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Are you fighting an uphill battle with your child's “defiance”? What if defiance wasn’t something to squash but an invitation to connect? Today, I’m turning the traditional parenting playbook on its head and exploring how to respond compassionately to our kids when they push back.


Often, when our kids push back, we instinctively react with frustration, viewing their refusal as disrespectful or unkind. However, what if small changes in our approach could lead to significant improvements? Instead of using consequences or bribes, we could invite cooperation naturally through play or empathy.


In This Episode:

  • Why “defiance” isn’t what it seems
  • Transforming chores into bonding moments
  • How patience can encourage cooperation
  • Choosing empathy over punishment in conflict
  • Building connection through playful approaches


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Peace and Parenting: How to Parent without PunishmentsBy Michelle Kenney, M. Ed

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