Can trying to solve every student problem actually hold them back? Join us as we explore this provocative question, inspired by Donald Winnicott's concept of the "good enough parent.” We'll dissect the instinct to "fix" and consider how stepping back can empower students, helping them build resilience, self-advocacy, and problem-solving skills, ultimately fostering their independence and emotional strength while lightening your workload.

We'll also challenge the unrealistic standards set by the ASCA National Model, questioning whether the relentless pursuit of perfection is truly beneficial. With only 1.1% of schools achieving RAMP status, it's clear that these high bars can create an unsustainable work environment. Instead, we advocate for "good enough school counseling," embracing imperfection and focusing on meaningful, manageable impacts. 

00:00 Introduction: The Well-Meaning Instinct of School Counselors

00:41 Empowering Students by Doing Less

01:06 Listener Reviews and Feedback

02:55 The Urge to Fix: A Common Challenge

04:25 The Concept of 'Good Enough' Counseling

07:54 Statistics and Realities of School Counseling

10:45 Sustainable Practices for School Counselors

21:54 The Importance of Empowering Students

22:42 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

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References/Resources:

Clemens, E. V., & Milsom, A. (2008). The school counselor’s role in addressing the mental health needs of students: A model for prevention, intervention, and crisis intervention. Journal of School Counseling, 6(23).

Winnicott, D. W. (1953). Transitional objects and transitional phenomena: A study of the first not-me possession. International Journal of Psychoanalysis, 34, 89–97.

Winnicott, D. W. (1965). The maturational processes and the facilitating environment. London: Hogarth Press.

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