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How to Use DEAR MAN to Ask for What You Want or Say "No" - The BPD Bunch


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Have you struggled with setting boundaries or asking for what you want in an effective way? This episode is for you! Lena shares her wisdom as a DBT therapist, teaching you how to use the DEAR MAN skill for interpersonal effectiveness.The DEAR MAN skill is a powerful technique used in Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) to help individuals effectively communicate their needs, set boundaries, and assertively make requests. It is an acronym that stands for:D - Describe the situation objectively.E - Express your feelings and opinions about the situation.A - Assertively ask for what you want or need.R - Reinforce the benefits or positive outcomes of your request.M - Stay mindful and focused on your goal.A - Appear confident and maintain good body language.N - Negotiate and be willing to find a compromise if needed.By using the DEAR MAN skill, individuals can enhance their communication skills and improve their ability to navigate difficult situations while maintaining self-respect and healthy relationships.

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