Covert abuse sneaks up on you. You may not recognize certain behaviors in your spouse as being abusive for days, weeks, months, or years, and even then, they can be hard to identify. That’s what makes covert abuse so incredibly painful, confusing, and hard to see, especially from the outside. 

Is your husband emotionally abusive, or does he just not know what it takes to be a good husband in a marriage? When does abuse become abuse — the first time, or after it is repeated many times over? If it’s just covert abuse and not overt, “obvious” abuse, does that even count as abuse, and should you just be patient with your husband? Let’s talk through each of these listener questions and more together. 

Key Points From This Episode:

• The difference between a healthy, good man, and an emotionally abusive man. 
• Why abuse is still abuse, even the first time. 
• The different masks that abusers put on to trick us and distract us from what is really going on. 
• What emotional abandonment can look like and why it is abusive. 
• Why the Flying Free Sisterhood may be able to help you if you are suffering from emotional abuse.

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