If you’ve never watched the popular Netflix show Love Is Blind then you won’t understand this episode as much, but bear with me. I will be deep-diving into a few people from this show and even if you’ve never seen it, you might get what I’m talking about. 

The premise of the show is can you go into a relationship blind, never seeing what the physical side of a person looks like, or can you just love their insides alone?

My short answer is, I don’t think so. Love is so much more in depth than physician attraction, or talking behind a screen about deep things and thinking you can maneuver the real world. Your job, friends, family, faith, etc all of the parts that make you unique are blended into seeing if someone can get along with you.

The moral of this story is to take care of yourself first before you can include anyone else to come and share your life. The baggage from our past, the beliefs we have put in our heads, none of it will make for a good relationship with a spouse if you don’t take the time to clean out your junk. 

Love is a beautiful thing, but is it blind? Let me know your opinion in the comments below!

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