It’s one of the most painful dating experiences: everything feels amazing… and then she disappears.

In this raw, relatable episode of Just Ask Her, we unpack three powerful submissions from men navigating ghosting, rejection, and confusion after what felt like real connection:

• Luke opens up about an overseas trip that changed everything with a woman he thought he was building something real with. Now she’s gone—no warning, no clarity—and he’s still holding on.

• Spencer shares the story of his whirlwind 4-date romance with a woman who seemed all-in—until she ghosted him after planning two more dates. What gives?

• Conor bravely tells us what it’s like being 30, never having been in a relationship, and constantly getting close—only to be shut out. He asks: What am I doing wrong, and how do I keep going?

💬 Gracie and Tracy go deep in this one, breaking down what ghosting really means, why it often has nothing to do with you, and what women are thinking when they pull away after connection. We also explore:

• What to do when you still have feelings but she cuts contact

• The truth about mixed signals and sudden disappearances

• Why “perfect dates” don’t always lead to commitment

• How to rebuild your confidence after being ghosted

• When (and how) to reach out again—or let go completely

Whether you’ve been left on read or still playing back every moment of your last date, this episode will give you clarity, closure, and hope.

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She said she only wanted something casual… but your heart didn’t get the memo.

In this episode of Just Ask Her, we’re diving into three real stories that hit home for a lot of men:

• A 36-year-old man rekindles something with the woman who once ghosted him—only to find himself falling all over again. Is she just bored… or is there still a chance?

• Another listener goes from intimate and honest connection to total silence after dating a single mom—what happened, and how do you respond to ghosting that makes no sense?

• Plus, we talk about first-date anxiety with a guy who knows he’s a catch… but struggles to show it early on.

If you’ve ever questioned whether you’re being patient or just played, this episode will give you honest advice, a woman’s perspective, and the clarity you need to stop spinning in circles.

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This week on Just Ask Her, we’re tackling three very real (and wildly different) dating dilemmas from our listeners:

• Carlos wants to know if there’s any hope for a conservative guy dating in a liberal city—or if he should hold out for a future move.

• Mark has rekindled things with his high school sweetheart… but there’s one big problem: she’s still best friends with his ex-wife.

• And an anonymous bachelor is wondering how to strike up a conversation with the woman he always runs into—but never has a chance to talk to.

We’re talking dating across political lines, what to do when the past gets in the way of the present, and how to approach a girl you barely know without being weird about it. Let’s dive in.

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In today’s episode, we’re diving into three powerful stories from men navigating the messy middle of modern dating:

💔 Luke thought he was one step away from proposing—until she blindsided him with a breakup.
😓 Josh is tired of being the one who always initiates, and he’s starting to feel the desperation creeping in.
🥲 Jerome had the best first date of his life… but now she’s gone quiet, and he’s left wondering if he should reach out again.

We’ll talk about what to do when effort feels one-sided, why some women emotionally check out long before they leave, and how to find clarity when the door hasn’t fully closed.

If you’ve ever felt blindsided, confused, or stuck on “what could’ve been,” this episode is for you.

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In Episode 31 of Just Ask Her, we dive into one of the most confusing dating experiences: when everything starts fast, feels promising… and then suddenly falls apart. From whirlwind reconnections to mixed signals after first dates, these listener stories are full of emotional highs, unexpected letdowns, and hard-earned lessons.

Evan shares what it’s like to be pulled in deeply—then pushed away after one perfect weekend. AL wonders if he blew his chance with a hostess who seemed interested… until she wasn’t. And Kyle opens up about how one experience erased months of confidence he built after leaving the dating apps behind.

We explore how to spot premature intensity, how to protect your heart without closing it off, and why confidence has to come from within—not from how someone responds to you. Whether you’ve been ghosted after a great weekend or left wondering what went wrong, this one’s for you.

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What does it really take to start over in dating—whether you’re 36, 62, or healing from deep emotional loss? In this episode of Just Ask Her, we respond to three powerful submissions from men navigating dating later in life.

We talk about:

• How to date after a bipolar diagnosis and little-to-no experience

• The challenges of dating in your 60s and getting past the first date

• Whether it’s fair to pursue someone who’s still grieving

• Why your dating history matters less than your emotional readiness

• How to show emotional maturity without coming on too strong

If you’ve ever felt behind, stuck, or uncertain about how to move forward in your love life—this episode is your sign to begin again.

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Why do some of your best dates go absolutely nowhere? In Episode 29 of Just Ask Her, Gracie and Tracy break down the most frustrating moments in modern dating—from ghosting after great chemistry to navigating the mixed signals that leave you stuck in limbo.

We answer three listener questions that highlight common (but painful) scenarios:

• Why women disappear after everything seems to be going well

• How to read and respond to mixed signals from someone who says they want something casual but keeps acting romantic

• What to do when you're trying to build a connection with a woman at work without landing in the friend zone

Whether you're dating after divorce, struggling to get past the second date, or wondering how to stand out without coming on too strong, this episode is packed with honest advice and fresh insights from two women who’ve seen it all.

💬 Topics covered:

• Why great dates don’t always turn into relationships

• Emotional chemistry vs. timing compatibility

• Slow burns, fast fades, and everything in between

• The “safe guy” trap and how to avoid it

• Building romantic tension without pressure

• Signs it’s time to walk away vs. keep showing up

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In this episode of 'Just Ask Her,' hosts Gracie Pleschourt, a dating expert, and her co-host Tracy Pleschourt, a certified life coach, tackle three insightful submissions from male listeners facing distinct dating challenges. They begin with JJ, a college student wondering how to keep a new spark alive over a three-month summer break. Next, they advise Mike, a 30-year-old trauma survivor worried if his career focus and limited social life are unattractive to potential partners. Finally, they address Rich, who is confused by a mixed response from a woman he reached out to on social media. Throughout, Gracie and Tracy offer practical advice and emphasize the importance of emotional availability, intentional communication, and self-worth in dating.

00:00 Introduction and Podcast Overview

00:53 Listener Submission: Keeping the Spark Alive Over Summer

02:34 Advice for Maintaining Long-Distance Connections

09:59 Personal Stories and Reflections on College Dating

14:40 Listener Submission: Balancing Career and Social Life

17:44 Understanding Different Relationship Expectations

18:56 Balancing Career and Social Life

19:51 Leveraging Social Skills for Dating

21:01 Utilizing Online Resources for Dating

21:49 Embracing Your Achievements with Confidence

23:23 Podcast Outro and Listener Engagement

23:42 Analyzing a Listener's Dating Dilemma

24:40 Decoding Mixed Signals in Dating

26:33 The Importance of Clear Communication

28:16 Managing Rejection and Building Resilience

32:37 Encouragement and Final Thoughts
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In this episode of Just Ask Her, Gracie and Tracy tackle three powerful submissions from men feeling stuck—whether it’s bumping into your ex at the gym, navigating emotionally messy flings in big-city bars, or wondering if your small town is what’s keeping you single.

You'll hear:

• How to protect your peace when “no contact” isn’t possible

• Why big city dating often feels like one big performance

• Whether moving for love is a smart idea—or a sneaky form of self-abandonment

• What to do when your dating apps feel like a loop of dead ends

• And how to build real momentum when everything feels stuck—romantically, socially, even sexually

This is a grounded, honest episode about self-respect, emotional clarity, and trusting your own inner compass. Because sometimes the real work isn’t in chasing love—it’s in clearing space for it.

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EP 26 — Timing, Betrayal, and the Friend Zone: Real Advice for Modern Dating

In this episode of Just Ask Her, Gracie and Tracy tackle three brutally honest listener submissions from men navigating complex, emotional dating challenges:

🩺 A cancer survivor steps into the dating world for the first time—only to kiss a woman who turns out to be married.
🧸 A self-described “safe guy” keeps getting friend-zoned and wants to know how to be seen as a romantic option.
🚩 A man reconnects with a woman from his past… who’s still legally married and has him on the lease to her apartment.

If you’ve ever asked yourself, “Is dating even worth it?” or “Why do women always see me as just a friend?”—this one’s for you.

Expect no-BS advice, clear takeaways, and a deeper understanding of how to navigate real-world dating complications with confidence and clarity.

🔑 You’ll learn:

• How to spot emotional red flags before you get too invested

• Why being seen as “safe” can kill chemistry—and how to flip the script

• What to do when loyalty starts feeling like self-sacrifice

Plus, the results from two powerful polls:

1. Can you be emotionally available and still have your guard up?

2. Would you date someone who’s perfect on paper—but there’s no spark?

This episode is raw, real, and packed with practical advice to help you take back control of your dating life.

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