In this episode, Kate and I get honest about the dance we lived for years. One partner whose mood controls the temperature of everything. One partner who slowly disappears trying to manage it.

We cover:

• What the controller is actually afraid of underneath the anger
• Why the people pleaser burns out even when nothing "bad" is happening
• Why waiting to feel safe will keep you stuck forever
• What both partners have to do to actually break the cycle

If something feels off in your marriage but you can't name it — this is the episode.

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