Jill Friday - It's Too Easy to Get Excited about a Deal and Miss Red Flags (LA 1832)
Transcript:
Steven Jack Butala:
... Steve and Jill here.
Jill K DeWit:
Hi.
Steven Jack Butala:
Welcome to The Land Academy Show, entertaining land, investment talk. I'm Steven Jack Butala.
Jill K DeWit:
And I'm Jill DeWit broadcasting from the Valley of the Sun.
Steven Jack Butala:
Today's Jill Friday, she's going to talk about, it's too easy to get excited about a deal, and miss the red flags.
Jill K DeWit:
Kind of like dating, "He asked me out, I'm so excited. We went out to dinner, he didn't open a door for me, he ordered before I got there. He-"
Steven Jack Butala:
"He asked me for money."
Jill K DeWit:
"Asked me for money." That's so true. That's awesome. But the point is, "I gave him a hotbox, it's what he needed, he asked me on a second date, isn't this great? What do you mean there's a problem?"
Steven Jack Butala:
There's a guy version of this.
Jill K DeWit:
This is true, this is a true story. A dear friend of ours, I'm sure she does not listen to this, so I'm safe sharing this, we're not going to say names.
Steven Jack Butala:
Of course not.
Jill K DeWit:
Did multiple blind dates in a day, I don't know what she was doing, but she had two or three coffee dates in one day, and she was telling about the guy in the middle, that by the time she got there, he was sitting down, drinking his own coffee, never once offered to buy her a cup of coffee. She finally took it upon herself to say, "I'm going to go get a cup of coffee." And she, because she's the sweet thing, she just said, "Would you like another cup of coffee?" To which he said, "Yeah, sure." So she went and got her own coffee and brought him back to coffee, what does that say about that guy? And yes, that was the last time they communicated. She did not miss that as a red flag, and that's a huge red flag, it was funny, anyway.
Steven Jack Butala:
You know what happens to guys?
Jill K DeWit:
Oh, bring it.
Steven Jack Butala:
They, for whatever reason, starts to date a girl, and all their guy friends are like, "Dude, listen-"
Jill K DeWit:
Oh.
Steven Jack Butala:
"That girl's a mess, she treats you like crap." And his response is, "What are you talking about? We always have fun." And they're just blinded by the whole thing, and so fast forward 30 to 60 days later-
Jill K DeWit:
I thought you said years.
Steven Jack Butala:
Yeah, it could be years.
Jill K DeWit:
Yeah.
Steven Jack Butala:
Just a fire ball disaster-
Jill K DeWit:
Right.
Steven Jack Butala:
And it's all blown up, and he's like, "Yeah, you guys were right." I've been on both sides of that. I've been the victim of it, and the person saying, "Dude..."
Jill K DeWit:
Yeah, "You've got to see what we're seeing."
Steven Jack Butala:
All of this, it happens with real estate deals-
Jill K DeWit:
True.
Steven Jack Butala:
And new people.
Jill K DeWit:
Yeah.
Steven Jack Butala:
Before we get into it, let's take a question posted by one of our members on the landinvestors.com online community, it's free. And I have to tell you about parcelfact.com, without making this complicated, go to parcelfact.com F-AC-T, and it's new and improved, we recently took two sites that we own, put them together, and made one great, amazing site.
Jill K DeWit:
There's a day pass too, by the way.
Steven Jack Butala:
Yeah.
Jill K DeWit:
Check it out.
Steven Jack Butala:
Check it all out, it's pretty amazing.
Jill K DeWit:
Interesting. Do I know this person?
Steven Jack Butala:
Nope.
Jill K DeWit:
This is a little shout out to me in here. Okay. So Erin wrote, "Hey, Jill DeWit, and all my phone answering people, dare I say, I am enjoying speaking with potential sellers, at least the people who reach out to us are all pretty pleasant. A good chunk of the people calling me just want to know that there's a real, not corporate person on the other side of the phone, and I enjoy talking to these people.