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“Why does lust fade in long-term relationships?”

“How do happy couples keep their sex life alive after years together?”

“Is it normal to lose desire for my partner over time?”

“What’s the best way to bring back passion after kids or menopause?”

Turns out bunny-rabbit lust has an expiration date—but on Sex, Love and Elephants, Dr. Cheryl makes it clear your sex life doesn’t have to expire with it. In this candid and funny re-release, she and her sweetheart dive deep into intimacy, desire, and what really happens when sex shifts over time. From menopause to scheduled sex, from the biology of lust to the reality of long-term love, this conversation is both raw and reassuring.

If you’ve ever wondered why you and your partner don’t connect the way you used to—or if you’ve worried that something is “wrong” because you’re not in the mood 24/7—this episode is your permission slip to drop the fairy tales and start focusing on what actually builds passion that lasts. Cheryl and her husband share their own story, including struggles, dry spells, and what it really takes to keep desire alive. Spoiler: no couple is “broken” just because spontaneous lust fades. The ones who thrive are the ones who adapt, laugh, and keep choosing each other—in and out of the bedroom.

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In This Episode, You’ll Learn:

(05:57) Why lust is always temporary—and why that’s not a bad thing

(15:38) How menopause can shake up your sex life, and what to do about it

(21:09) Why long-term couples often experience low desire—and why you’re not “broken” if you do

(29:36) The biology behind fading lust and how to work with it, not against it

(39:19) Today’s LoveByte: Schedule sex. Don't tell me it's not romantic to schedule sex. I'll tell you what's not romantic: never having sex. Wherever you are, we begin where you are, bring sensuality back. Snuggle your sweetheart today and make your erotic life a priority again. 

Want to learn more about Buddhism and relationships? Cheryl’s book Buddha’s Bedroom is a great resource! 

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