Aleeza Ben Shalom, celebrity matchmaker of Netflix’s Jewish Matchmaking, shares actionable advice to help you find your path on this dating journey with wisdom from her new book “Matchmaker, Matchmaker: Find Me a Love That Lasts”. And the Dear Damona question this week is: What are the signs that someone is interested in you?

Pre-order your copy of Aleeza's new book, “Matchmaker, Matchmaker: Find Me a Love That Lasts”, by visiting: https://marriagemindedmentor.com/book/

And, follow Aleeza on Instagram @AleezaBenShalom!

Ready to break free of your dating loops? Get Damona’s signature online program, The Dating Accelerator by visiting: DamonaHoffman.com/program

Submit your questions for Dear Damona on any of the socials @DamonaHoffman or by visiting DamonaHoffman.com

TIMESTAMPS

Intro (00:00:00)  

Finding your personal dating playbook (00:01:03)  

Meet Aleeza Ben Shalom (00:02:14)  

Aleeza's journey as a matchmaker (00:02:50)  

Date them till you hate them (00:04:02)  

The three-date rule (00:05:30)  

Clarity in dating decisions (00:06:37)  

The importance of staying curious (00:07:25)  

Navigating difficult conversations (00:10:30)  

Rejection as a form of protection (00:13:20)  

The five-day challenge (00:14:42)  

Five Day Challenge Explained (00:15:04)

Clarifying the No Touching Rule (00:15:49)

Tips for the Challenge (00:16:36)

Importance of Connection in Dating (00:18:39)

Dating Dynamics and Tests (00:19:47)

Rules for Same-Sex Couples (00:20:33)

Calculating Relationship Compatibility (00:21:06)

Interests vs. Core Values (00:22:44)

Significance of Family Values (00:24:22)

Understanding Timelines in Relationships (00:26:53)

Self-Discovery in Dating (00:29:16)

The Five-Year Relationship Evolution (00:29:50)  

The 555 Dating Rule Explained (00:30:23)  

Building Momentum in Dating (00:31:04)  

Chemistry and Intentional Dating (00:34:13)  

Soulmate Clarity Concept (00:37:38)  

Navigating Workplace Relationships (00:40:41)  

Dating Gestures and Vibes (00:45:35)  

Small Moves in Dating (00:46:29)  

Attraction Beyond Age (00:47:22)  

Investing in Clear Signals (00:48:52)  

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