Learning To Love Your Struggles

It’s really easy to assume that success in business happens over night, with no struggles whatsoever. In reality, it doesn’t. Building your business and taking the leap into entrepreneurship is not always shiny. Sometimes it’s having to share a single coffee with your hubby because it’s all you can afford and other times it’s having to move to another country because the cost of living is less.

These are things my dear friend, Tessa Hartnett and her husband Nathan, did when they were starting and growing their businesses and working through their struggles.

Tessa is a 7 figure entrepreneur who is e-commerce obsessed with over 12 years of experience in the field. She’s currently running a total of 11 stores with her husband and loves to travel with her family.

Something we really want to touch on during this episode is the less shiny parts of entrepreneurship because there are many challenging times while you’re growing your business from the ground up and, more often than not, those times are not spoken about.

Get ready to learn how Tessa learned to love their struggles!

Key Takeaways:

>> [0:23] This is episode is coming to you from all the way in Byron Bay, New South Wales. It’s a bit of a different episode because I’m actually recording this while on holiday with my friend Tessa Hartnett.

>> [1:03] Since Tessa and I had the opportunity to be together IRL we thought it’d be fun to jump on and record a podcast episode that talks all things entrepreneurship, struggles, what it’s like to raise a little one and work with your husband as your business partner because these are all experiences we have in common!

>> [3:18] Tessa has a zero attachment mindset when it comes to her business because her and Nathan (her husband) are so experimental when it comes to their niches.

>> [4:30] When Tessa and Nathan were on their first date, he told her how much he wanted to be an entrepreneur and she loved it. Their first business was an eBay store!

>> [7:49] Tessa and Nathan work extremely well together and they don’t know how to do anything different because they’ve worked together since their first date!

What is it like for Tessa to work with her husband?

They butt heads on certain decisions.

Tessa and Nathan do not fight, but they do have disagreements.

Both of them rely on each person’s strength.

They ask each other, “How important on a scale of 1-10 is this for you?”

>> [11:08] Sometimes when you’re working with your spouse, it’s easy for your ego to get involved. However, it’s important to not let your ego run the show.

>> [12:38] There is no middle ground when it comes to your children. They’re either really cute or driving you up a wall.

>> [13:33] Tessa never new if she would be a mum, but because her and her husband was an entrepreneur they thought it’d be nice to have a baby too.

>> [14:47] At 9 months old, they put their son into daycare and Tessa felt really guilty. She felt like she was giving her business and her team the short straw.

>> [16:14] You CAN balance being a mum and an entrepreneur.

>> [17:08] Your environment really contributes to how you feel about yourself and what you do.

How did Tessa work through the guilt?

Tessa and her family relocated to New Zealand/Thailand and this removed her from the societal pressure.

Get around like minded people because then you’ll feel much better.

Social support is also incredibly uplifting.

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