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This week on Needs To Be Studied… we had WAY too many questions 😭

We went down the rabbit hole of freaky sexual vocabulary words like “rainbow kiss,” “Roman shower,” and other terms the internet probably should’ve kept to itself 💀

PLUS… I shared the story about the time I went to the strip club, got head from a woman stripper, and suddenly started questioning my whole sexuality for 45 minutes 😭

Does one experience change anything?
Can curiosity exist without labels?
And why are sex terms getting more and more unhinged every year?!

This episode is funny, messy, uncomfortable, educational, and absolutely should’ve stayed in the group chat.

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This week on Needs To Be Studied, I’m joined by my friend JB for a fun messy conversation about one question that always starts arguments 😭 — should couples live together before marriage or wait until after “I do”?

We got into roommate red flags, hygiene habits, splitting bills, learning your partner’s REAL routines, and whether moving in together actually helps relationships… or ruins them 👀

Plus, we shared personal experiences, unpopular opinions, and the little things nobody warns you about when sharing space with somebody you love.

Class is officially in session 🎓✨

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Let’s be real… are healthy relationships actually boring… or are we just addicted to chaos? 😭

In this episode, we get into the uncomfortable truth about what happens when you finally experience peace in love—and why it can feel so… dry. Is it growth? Or are we lowkey missing the toxicity?

Then we shift gears into a conversation that might ruffle some feathers:
👉 Is hiding money from your partner considered cheating?
We break down financial infidelity, what counts, what doesn’t, and why people do it in the first place.

And just when you thought it couldn’t get messier…
👉 People are now using AI in the bedroom 👀
From improving communication to enhancing intimacy, we talk about whether this is innovative… or crossing a line.

This episode is funny, honest, a little messy, and definitely something that needs to be studied.

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Dating in 2026 is getting a little… unhinged 😭

In this episode, we break down the latest dating trend “Shreking”—what it is, why people are doing it, and whether it’s actually smart or just another excuse for chaos in the dating streets.

Then… yeah… the conversation takes a turn.

My sister joins me and gets REAL about her past experiences, including a wild story about pegging that had me questioning everything I thought I knew

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Went to a sex club with my man  & Shanta… yeah, you already know this episode is chaos 😭

From unexpected interactions 👀
to me lowkey getting put in situations I was NOT ready for 😬
to the stuff that actually surprised me the most…

And somehow we ALSO got into:
✨ my wild Ari Lennox celebrity interaction
✨ what I surprised my man with (yeah… we going there 😏)
✨ AND me meeting his siblings for the first time… (why that feel more stressful than the sex club?? 😭)

This episode is messy, funny, and lowkey educational…
because baby… some of this really Needs To Be Studied 📚

🎧 Tap in now — you’re not ready for this one.

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Everybody got rules in dating… but let’s be real — are they actually protecting your relationship, or slowly killing it?

This week on Needs To Be Studied, we getting into the truth about relationship rules, boundaries, and control — and why some of y’all “standards” might be the exact reason your love life not working.

We talking:

    •    when boundaries turn into control 👀

    •    why too many rules kill chemistry

    •    the difference between protecting your peace vs sabotaging your relationship

    •    are “no texting after 10pm” type rules actually toxic?

    •    do healthy relationships even need rules… or just trust?

And yeah… we getting a little messy:

    •    Are people using “boundaries” as an excuse to control their partner?

    •    If you need a rule for everything… do you even trust them?

    •    And be honest… are YOUR rules pushing people away?

If you’ve ever said “I don’t play that” in dating… this episode might humble you just a little bit 😭

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On this episode of Needs To Be Studied, Billy is joined by Dr. Felder to unpack a question many people are afraid to ask:

Are the relationship patterns we learned from our parents affecting our love lives today?

From emotionally unavailable households to chaotic relationships we witnessed growing up, many of us unknowingly carry those experiences into our adult dating lives.

Dr. Felder breaks down how childhood experiences shape our expectations of love, communication, and conflict—and why so many people repeat the same relationship patterns without realizing it.

The conversation also dives into one of the biggest questions people have today: When do you actually need therapy?And if you do decide to go, how do you find the right therapist for you?

Billy and Dr. Felder discuss the signs that therapy might be helpful, common misconceptions about therapy, and practical advice for choosing a therapist that truly fits your needs.

If you’ve ever wondered why you date the same type of person, struggle with emotional connection, or feel stuck in unhealthy relationship patterns… this episode needs to be studied.

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In this episode of Needs To Be Studied, we debate whether casual sex is really “casual” when one person might be getting more than the other. Am I just participating in hookup culture… or am I using this man? Is convenience the same thing as manipulation? And at what point does “no strings attached” turn into emotional negligence?

We get into:

• The ethics of booty calls

• Is it wrong if both adults agree?

• Does knowing someone’s name actually matter?

• Can you treat someone like an experience instead of a person?

• When casual starts feeling one-sided

This one is messy, funny, and a little uncomfortable — because sometimes the villain in the story might be you.

Let’s discuss.

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