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In this episode, I’m joined by my bestie Samantha as we unpack my wild trip to Vegas for Beyoncé’s final show—and yes, THE Beyoncé said my name! 👑✨ From screaming every lyric in the crowd to waking up way too emotionally hungover, this trip wasn’t just about the concert—it was about connection. Vegas brought me and my new boo closer than ever, and now I’m out here feeling drunk in love, crazy in love, and lowkey dangerously in love. Tap in for the tea, the Beyoncé moment of a lifetime, and the real talk about what happens when a vacation turns into a whole situationship.

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In this episode, I’m joined by my sexologist bestie Kasha, and we’re breaking down exactly how to become the most seductive version of yourself — without changing your body, begging for attention, or overthinking your worth.

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Are you falling in love after two FaceTimes and a good morning text? Yeah… you might be skipping the vetting process. This week on Needs to Be Studied, we’re breaking down why so many of us fall too fast, ignore red flags, and end up dating in delusion.

We’re joined by dating and life coach Chad Scott, who’s giving us the real about how to vet better, protect your peace, and stop choosing partners who aren’t choosing you.

We’re getting into:

• Why your vetting process is trash
• The lies you tell yourself when you're lonely
• What emotionally mature dating actually looks like

💥 If you’ve ever said “I saw potential” more than once this year… this episode is for you.

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This week on Needs To Be Studied, Billy is prepping for a big date night (we’re talking cologne, candles, and clean sheets energy) — but before the romance begins, he’s joined by guest judge Samantha to unpack the messiness of micro-cheating and the real work it takes to keep a relationship hot, healthy, and hydrated.

From liking your work wife’s selfies to planning surprise sex dates with your actual partner — we’re talking about the subtle red flags and green lights in long-term love. And yes, Billy might need detention for some of his past behavior. 👀

Tap in for laughs, lightbulbs, and love lessons — and stay till the end for Samantha’s HOT TAKE on what relationships really need in 2025.

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Why are so many men checking out of modern dating? In this episode, I sit down with a single male guest to unpack the unexpected, unspoken, and sometimes hilarious things that make men lose interest fast. From “over-texting” to performative femininity, we’re breaking down the real reasons he unmatched, never called back, or suddenly got “busy.” This isn’t about bashing—it’s about understanding the male perspective in a dating world that feels more like a job interview than a connection.

Ladies, this one’s for you: If you’ve ever wondered “What did I do wrong?”—this episode might have the answer.

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This week on Needs To Be Studied, we’re saying BYE to rushed relationships and fake moans. Joined by the unfiltered and hilarious @shanta_shanta_ and @shaynasmiles, we get into the slow dating era, where women are prioritizing emotional connection, peace, and pleasure over performance.

We talk about:

💋 Why the streets are exhausting

🧠 How healing is changing what (and who) we desire

🔥 The “sexual renaissance” happening in your late 20s and 30s

😩 The real reasons women fake orgasms — and how to stop

🕯️ What slow dating actually looks like in real life

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Chris and Kasha are back—and the group chat is officially open. In part two, we get into the messy, hilarious, and too real ways couples miscommunicate. From shady tone to passive-aggressive texts, we’re talking about why it’s not what you say… it’s how you say it.

Can your delivery ruin the message? Can you be too honest? And what’s the difference between being real and being rude? Let’s talk about it—respectfully (kinda).

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What does good sex really feel like — emotionally, mentally, and physically? In this episode, we break down the difference between sex that’s just “okay” and the kind that leaves you glowing, grounded, and genuinely satisfied. From physical chemistry to emotional connection, we explore the ingredients of pleasure that go beyond just orgasms.

Whether you’re unsure if you’ve ever had good sex, or you’re learning to define it on your own terms, this conversation is for you. We’re sharing real experiences, hard truths, and personal insights to help you understand what you should be feeling in the bedroom—and why so many of us settle for less.

🔊 Tune in if you’ve ever asked:

• Is this really what sex is supposed to feel like?

• Why do I feel emotionally disconnected after?

• How do I know if it’s good sex or just good performance?

This is your sign to stop faking satisfaction and start studying what pleasure truly means.

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Thinking about attending your first play party? Curious but nervous? This episode is your ultimate beginner’s guide! We’re breaking down everything you need to know before you step into the room — from how parties are vetted, to first-timer etiquette, to common mistakes that can kill your vibe.

We’re also diving into the realities of consent, the role of alcohol, and how to handle your nerves if this world is brand new to you.

Whether you’re ready to RSVP or still lurking in curiosity — this episode will leave you informed, empowered, and ready to explore with confidence.

What we cover:
✅ How play parties really work today
✅ First-timer etiquette — what to do & what NOT to do
✅ Vetting processes & red flags to watch for
✅ How to manage nerves & set boundaries
✅ Consent & alcohol — the conversations you NEED to have
✅ Mistakes beginners make & how to avoid them

Tune in — because pleasure spaces need to be studied. 🎓✨

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This week on Needs To Be Studied, we’re turning the mirror on ourselves and asking the uncomfortable question: Would you date you?

Billy unpacks what it means to be truly self-aware in relationships — the good, the bad, and the emotionally unavailable. We talk past relationship patterns, red flags we ignored (and waved ourselves), and what we’re doing differently in our next chapter of love.

PLUS: Billy spills the tea on his latest date night 👀 — how it went, what he learned, and whether there’s a second date in the cards. Spoiler: It was giving grown, intentional, and just a lil sexy.

Whether you're healing, hoeing, or somewhere in between, this episode will have you questioning your love habits and maybe texting your therapist.

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