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Billy links up with the ladies of Code Name Coochie for a wild, unfiltered study session on the unrealistic expectations we all drag into dating and relationships. From fantasy-level demands to the pressure of “perfect chemistry” on day one, nothing is off limits. Then we get into the juicy stuff: what it’s really like having sex with someone for the first time, the nerves, the surprises, and the stories we definitely weren’t prepared for.

If you’re trying to understand your own dating patterns, laugh through the mess, or just feel seen in your situationship era, this episode is your new homework assignment. Tap in, take notes, and share with your group chat.

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Billy’s in his chef era, y’all 🍝🔥 — cooking dinner for the guy he’s been dating for the very first time, and suddenly craving more than just seconds… he’s craving marriage 😩💍. In this episode of Needs To Be Studied, Billy breaks down the difference between soft launching vs. hard launching relationships, how social media makes us overthink love, and what it means when you’re secretly planning a wedding after one good date.

Tune in for a mix of real talk, romantic delusion, and a side of pasta, as Billy gets transparent about modern dating, emotional intimacy, and the anxiety of going public with your heart.

If you’ve ever wondered when it’s time to post “your person” — or if you’re just soft launching in the stories like a coward 👀 — this one’s for you.

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Everybody’s swiping, linking, and ghosting… but is anybody actually finding love anymore? 👀

In this episode of Needs to Be Studied, we get real about LGBTQ hookup culture and the struggles of dating in a world obsessed with instant gratification. From late-night “u up?” texts to emotional burnout, we break down how hookup culture has changed the way queer folks connect, date, and love.

Join Billy the Bad Guy and friends as they unpack the truth about modern queer relationships — the good, the messy, and the complicated in-between. If you’ve ever wondered why finding love feels impossible in today’s dating scene, this one’s for you.

Tune in, laugh, and maybe even reflect a little — because finding love in 2025? That definitely needs to be studied. 🎓🌈

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It’s the 50th episode of Needs to Be Studied — and you know Billy couldn’t celebrate quietly. What was supposed to be a chill Q&A with supporters turns into pure chaos when Billy and Wolf start swapping stories… including the time Billy thought he was going to a sex club but somehow ended up in a full-on freak off 👀.

After the laughs (and confusion), things heat up when Billy dives into the real convo: Casual Dating vs. Intentional Dating. Are you vibing just to kill time or dating with purpose? This episode breaks down the blurred lines, the mind games, and the moment you realize you might be the one keeping it casual.

Tune in for story time, unfiltered truth, and a little birthday energy for the 50th class session of Needs to Be Studied. 🎉

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Billy recaps the wild live show moments (his fave yet 👀), shares a birthday recap with his boo Papo 🎂💋, then takes us to sex school with vocab words you’ve never heard 📚 and anal tips you’ll actually use 🍑✨.

In this episode:

• 🎤 Live show highlights
• 🎉 Birthday recap with Papo
• 📚 Spicy sex vocab
• 🍑 Anal tips that hit

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Think disabled people don’t have sex? Think again. 👀 In this episode, we sit down with Cnote (who’s blind) and Frenchy (who’s in a wheelchair) from the Blind But Now I See podcast — and trust us, they’re here to crush every outdated myth.

We’re also joined by Kasha the Sexologist, who helps them (and us 👅) explore how to keep sex spicy, fun, and full of pleasure no matter your ability.

💥 What you’ll learn:

• Why disability doesn’t erase desire, intimacy, or pleasure
• Real talk about sex while blind & in a wheelchair 🛑➡️🔥
• Tips from a sexologist on confidence, communication & spicing it up
• Busting myths society keeps pushing about disabled love lives

This one’s funny, flirty, and educational — proving that pleasure has no limits.

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