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Everybody’s swiping, linking, and ghosting… but is anybody actually finding love anymore? 👀

In this episode of Needs to Be Studied, we get real about LGBTQ hookup culture and the struggles of dating in a world obsessed with instant gratification. From late-night “u up?” texts to emotional burnout, we break down how hookup culture has changed the way queer folks connect, date, and love.

Join Billy the Bad Guy and friends as they unpack the truth about modern queer relationships — the good, the messy, and the complicated in-between. If you’ve ever wondered why finding love feels impossible in today’s dating scene, this one’s for you.

Tune in, laugh, and maybe even reflect a little — because finding love in 2025? That definitely needs to be studied. 🎓🌈

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It’s the 50th episode of Needs to Be Studied — and you know Billy couldn’t celebrate quietly. What was supposed to be a chill Q&A with supporters turns into pure chaos when Billy and Wolf start swapping stories… including the time Billy thought he was going to a sex club but somehow ended up in a full-on freak off 👀.

After the laughs (and confusion), things heat up when Billy dives into the real convo: Casual Dating vs. Intentional Dating. Are you vibing just to kill time or dating with purpose? This episode breaks down the blurred lines, the mind games, and the moment you realize you might be the one keeping it casual.

Tune in for story time, unfiltered truth, and a little birthday energy for the 50th class session of Needs to Be Studied. 🎉

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Billy recaps the wild live show moments (his fave yet 👀), shares a birthday recap with his boo Papo 🎂💋, then takes us to sex school with vocab words you’ve never heard 📚 and anal tips you’ll actually use 🍑✨.

In this episode:

• 🎤 Live show highlights
• 🎉 Birthday recap with Papo
• 📚 Spicy sex vocab
• 🍑 Anal tips that hit

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Think disabled people don’t have sex? Think again. 👀 In this episode, we sit down with Cnote (who’s blind) and Frenchy (who’s in a wheelchair) from the Blind But Now I See podcast — and trust us, they’re here to crush every outdated myth.

We’re also joined by Kasha the Sexologist, who helps them (and us 👅) explore how to keep sex spicy, fun, and full of pleasure no matter your ability.

💥 What you’ll learn:

• Why disability doesn’t erase desire, intimacy, or pleasure
• Real talk about sex while blind & in a wheelchair 🛑➡️🔥
• Tips from a sexologist on confidence, communication & spicing it up
• Busting myths society keeps pushing about disabled love lives

This one’s funny, flirty, and educational — proving that pleasure has no limits.

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This week on Needs to Be Studied, I’m joined by Honey & Teddy, a queer bisexual poly couple, for a deep dive into what it really takes to make polyamory and open relationships work. From boundaries to communication, they share how they keep love strong while embracing multiple connections.

Here’s what we cover:

✨ Poly dynamics — how Honey & Teddy structure their relationship

🚦 Boundaries — rules that keep love safe, healthy, and fun

🗣️ Communication — why talking before, during, and after sex parties matters

💞 Queer love & bisexuality — breaking stigmas and living authentically

👀 Polyamory myths — what people always get wrong about open relationships

If you’ve ever been curious about polyamory, queer love, or open relationships, this episode brings laughs, lessons, and unfiltered honesty.

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What does it really feel like when you’ve found the right one? In this episode, I sit down with New York Times bestselling author of No Holds Barred and host of the Decision Decision Podcast Weezy WTF to unpack the difference between chasing toxic love and finding the kind of relationship that finally feels easy.
We break down:
✨ The moment you know you’ve found the right person
✨ Why healthy love feels calm, not chaotic
✨ The green flags most people overlook in relationships
✨ Compersion & open relationships — what people get wrong
✨ How to handle jealousy before exploring open love
If you’ve ever stayed too long in the wrong relationship or wondered if you’re ready for the right one, this conversation will hit hard.
👉 Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe if you’ve ever thought “Why is real love supposed to be so complicated?

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